"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Know any AFC/womens' dating advice forums?

Austin Allegro

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Gentlemen, I'm in need of a laugh.

Could you suggest some messageboards where AFC advice is given to men or where women discuss men.

I've tried datingissues.com - it seems very quiet and mostly DJ anyway.

girlproblems.com and mensuck.com don't work.

glamour.com doesn't seem to have any messageboards.

Know any good ones?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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AFCish behaviour is needed sometimes.

As long as you are in control, show her you are your own man, independent. Dont do everything she asks you to, dont be putty in her hands.

Then

Being kind, gentle and AFCish ocassionally is fine....this makes women fall for you.

they see a gentle side....a rare side noone sees.
 

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As long as you've got twelve inches of putty in her hands, eh Realman?:rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ah hahahaha hoooo hoo...heeee he he hea HAAA HAAA HAAA.....(pauses to gasp for breath and wipe tears from eyes...) ur hur..uh huh uh huhuhuhHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

http://www.badgirlswirl.com/forums/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=23199

http://www.badgirlswirl.com/forums/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=23089

This one is priceless!
http://www.badgirlswirl.com/forums/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=23201


Check out this total AFC and the total overreaction by the chick to his lame advances…!

http://www.badgirlswirl.com/forums/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=23202
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The stupid boy forums are the most AFC thing I have ever seen.

Well done to the DJs who are trying to bring light to their darkness.
 

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Originally posted by GigaloDJ
If you are educated enough in the DJ ways, take a look at the boards on SoSuave.com.
True, sadly true

btw., is that why you joined our other forum for guys 'n girls with no clue?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wow, after reading some of those posts on datingadvice those guys are clueless. Time to step in =)
 

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LOL. they are ridiculously AFC over at datingadviceforums.com.

...Nevermind. I got banned for telling a guy to tak ea chance and stop being an emotional tampon.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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