"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Status!!

skinnyguy

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Wanted to know what you guys think about the importance of status.

If you're a guy and you aren't doing well with women, does a bump in status help your game?

If you don't have status currently, how do you go about getting that status?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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skinnyguy said:
Wanted to know what you guys think about the importance of status.

If you're a guy and you aren't doing well with women, does a bump in status help your game?

If you don't have status currently, how do you go about getting that status?
Yes status is important. If you lump it in with power I would say it is the most important trait. Powerful men get the most women; more than good looking guys, rich guys, etc.
 

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You just don't stop do you?

Your status is irrelevant. You hear about "powerful, rich, handsome men" whining daily about how they cannot get dames.

AFC is AFC regardless if you are a burger flipper or a CEO in a suit. The same way a loser can get laid seven days a week, a "winner" can be on a ten year dry spell.

Funny how this links to seeking happiness externally. Do you think status will get you laid? Will it make you happier? It won't.

Take George Sodini for example, he had ample cash, wasn't terrible ugly, he was a systems analyst for a law firm. Mother****er still couldn't get laid.
 

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The most famous man on the planet was a guy who didn't have two pennies to rub together and was the leader of a cult now better known as the largest religous movement on the planet aka Christianity.

Status is a 'state' of mind.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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HalfAddict said:
You just don't stop do you?
He's a troll. It's what trolls do.
 

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HalfAddict said:
You just don't stop do you?
I think he gets off on making thread after thread about theory details. That way he can feel like he is "part of it". Classic poseur, you'll find them in every movement.

Or it's like Iceberg says, he's a troll. Whichever is the explanation, the result is the same: He keeps spamming the forum with nonsense threads that push more important threads to page two. Time to hike over to BeDJ's thread about banning trolls and give it a thumbs up.
 
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