Lately I have been formulating a theory of how being an older man might actually be able to work to your ADVANTAGE when hooking up with younger women.

It crossed my mind that the way I treat my age (nonchalantly, almost with pride) might actually work to my advantage. My last g/f had just turned 21 when I met her. She told me later in the relationship that she never would have thought she would be seeing a guy that was 10 years older. Somehow I managed to pull a hot chick that was quite a bit younger and at least on the surface was opposed to dating an older man.

When I started dating her I was 31 and she was barely 21. I met her at a club and after hanging out with her and her group a few times we were standing outside the club after hours and the subject of age came up. I told them how old I was, then asked how old they were. She said "21" and her friend said "19". My eyes got real wide and I said, "HOLY SH1T! We aren't going to get arrested for talking to you, ARE WE????"

The way I see it, when the subject of age came up she was already at least slightly attracted to me. By turning the tables and making it look like I thought she was REALLY young it diffused her thoughts of me being "old" and in effect made it to where SHE had to qualify herself to me instead of th other way around.

sort of with you but can you explain it again differently?

Originally posted by yendor28
sort of with you but can you explain it again differently?

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Basically, a lot of you older guys are worried about how younger women perceive older men for sex or relationship prospects. Generally younger women will tell you that they aren't interested in older men, sometimes even going so far as to say "That's gross!" HOWEVER......

We all know that there can be a HUUUUUGE difference between what women say and what they actually do.

So what I am proposing is the idea that you turn the tables on the situation. Most guys are worried that THEY won't qualify to meet the criteria of a younger woman. I say you should turn it around into a situation where you make her qualify herself to YOU.

It seemed to work for my last g/f. When the subject of age finally came up I made it seem like she was too young for me, thus putting the pressure on her to prove that she isn't too young.

Last night I was with a couple of girls that are in their mid 20's. The age thing came up and I was matter of fact about it, maybe joking a little but not showing that I was insecure about it in any way. If they were a bit younger I would have laid it on thick about them being too young blah, blah, blah.

See how it works?

It's true.

The young ones are used to young, lame in the sack guys. They are convinced that older guys have so much more experience, and they long to get worked like they've never been worked before. They will grovel at your feet like cats in heat for you give it to them - ONLY if you don't show interest, like, they are too young and you don't care to waste your time. They'll wait and fantasize, then wait some more. When they catch the right time, they'll grab you up and start making out with YOU because they just can't stand it anymore.

It's a default attraction that is built in to the young women. Less is more as far as effort goes... just like any woman, they want what they can't have.

And, fitting enough, they aren't worth ANY effort. They usually suck in bed.

Originally posted by Vulpine
And, fitting enough, they aren't worth ANY effort. They usually suck in bed.

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I would have to disagree with you there.

I had the best sex of my life with my last g/f and she was pretty young. She could out-dance a high class Vegas stripper....maybe that had something to do with it

Yep, Im finding no trouble bagging younger women, as Ive got older I feel a lot more secure in myself and feel pretty bombproof, I think this is what rubs off on the young chicks? Experience I guess? not to mention my James Bond persona...lol ;-)