As some of you might know from prior posts, I have an ace in the hole, a secret weapon for hooking up with younger women.

It's really simple. Instead of letting HER qualify YOU based upon your age, all you have to do is beat her to the punch, turn the tables and make her think that it's HER age that is an issue for YOU.

A couple of weeks ago I broke my own rule when it comes to younger women.

I was out with a group of friends and a couple of the girls I know brought along a coworker.

Everything was going well. The new girl was flirting with me a bit, taking pictures with me and stuff, but I didn't think much of it. We were headed into one of the most popular clubbing complexes in town, and she made a comment about never having been there before. Since pretty much EVERYONE in town has been to this place, I asked her why she had never been there. She says, "Cause I just turned 21".

Normally this is the point where I would start pretending to freak out that I'm hanging out with a chick who is 14 years younger than me, INSTANTLY establishing the frame in my favor and making her try to prove her maturity level to me.

For some reason that night I must have left my "A" game (or maybe even my brain) at home, cause I did exactly the OPPOSITE of what I should have. When she said "I just turned 21" I said "Wow, that makes me feel old". Ouch.

I caught myself after I said it, but it was too late.

So from that point on she was busting on ME for being OLD. Not good.

One of the comments she made was when I smacked her a$$ later in the night, and she said, "Hey, watch it, I don't even know you. If you do that again I'm gonna have to kick you in your wrinkly 35 yr old balls".

I'm telling you fellas, if you do this right it works almost EVERY TIME. All you have to do is establish the frame, tease her a little, and sit back and watch as she tries to prove she's worthy of your company. Works like a charm.

At this point I know I still have a shot with this one, but now it's an uphill battle trying to get back in the drivers seat.

Last night we went out again. At the end of the night I had an after party at my place, and ended up escalating things with her. She was saying stuff like "You want this a$$, don't you?" Later we were making out pretty heavy for a few minutes, and she pushes me away and makes a comment about how we can't do this cause "you're too old, like almost my dad's age".

Now if this chick was really that concerned about my age she wouldn't be grabbing my d!ck and bending over in my kitchen letting me rub her cooch. But I fukked up. I basically handed over control the second I said " that makes me feel old". I gave her the pedestal, now I'm in the position of having to work to kick it out from under her if I wanna get in her pants.

So don't let this happen to you. Always, always, ALWAYS put her on the defensive about her age. Keep teasing her about it. Call her a "baby". Tell her she's "sooo cute". Make her work for YOU, not the other way around.

hey STR8UP can you give some examples of what would you say to a chick who is much younger then you, in order for her to feel as if she is qualifing to you.

As soon as she tells you her age, you start to ham it up. I suppose it's possible to go overboard, but I really play it up as if it's a big deal to me that she is so young.

I hooked up with my last LTR when she was barely 21. We were standing outside a club after hours one night after I met her and the age topic came up. She told me she just turned 21 and her friend was 18. I was like "HOLY SH!T! Are we gonna get arrested for talking to you??"

Awhile back I hooked up with a 20 yr old. I made it a point to call her "kid". I would tell her she's just a baby. She would get real defensive and say "I'm not a baby, I'm a grown woman!" Okay.......easy there killer!

And don't make ANY negative references to YOUR age. If she asks just answer nonchalantly.

STR8UP said:

As soon as she tells you her age, you start to ham it up. I suppose it's possible to go overboard, but I really play it up as if it's a big deal to me that she is so young.

I hooked up with my last LTR when she was barely 21. We were standing outside a club after hours one night after I met her and the age topic came up. She told me she just turned 21 and her friend was 18. I was like "HOLY SH!T! Are we gonna get arrested for talking to you??"

Awhile back I hooked up with a 20 yr old. I made it a point to call her "kid". I would tell her she's just a baby. She would get real defensive and say "I'm not a baby, I'm a grown woman!" Okay.......easy there killer!

And don't make ANY negative references to YOUR age. If she asks just answer nonchalantly.

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Good stuff.

There is this chick at work who is 19-20 and asked me how old I was and when I told her 27 her mouth just dropped because she thought I am in my early 20's. I tend to get that alot since I look younger then my real age. I now realise that I should have asked her how old she was and then tell her "wow you are soo young, I should get you a pacifier or something".

You bring up a good point.

I'm sure it helps out quite a bit if you look younger than you really are. Fortunately for me I'm speaking from that perspective.

People usually mistake me for being anywhere from 25-29, hardly ever 30+. The 26 yr old I've been banging lately said she was worried when she first met me cause she thought I was in my early 20's. Good to hear when you are getting close to middle age, lol.

That probably gets me past a lot of the psychological barriers in itself, cause if a 21 yr old tells herself she won't date anyone over 29 and I LOOK like I could be 29, it's gonna be a little easier for her to justify breaking her "rule".

Interesting concept you bring up.. I was recently dating/banging a HB 10 years younger than me. Although I never made my age an issue by saying I feel old or whatever I wonder had I set the frame off that bat that she was a baby maybe she would have done more of the chasing or stuck around a bit longer...? The sex fizzled out pretty quickly, only lasted about a month or so and then we just got on that "hey, how r ya.. havnt seen you in a bit" you know, buddy type level. She still wanted to hang out but getting in the pants just wasnt happening anymore...

Girls that are in the 18-21 age range consider anything over 28 to be old. When it comes to gaming girls this age like The op says its always a plus to look young. I am going to be 31 next month and have strong game with the younger ladies, however if I was 26 I think my game would be stronger.

There is limit on gaming woman much younger than you. FOR EXAMPLE if your 35 and look like your 40 your going to struggle in gaming 21 year old girls period. You might get lucky here and there but you will not get lucky on a consistent basis.

Take brad pitt he is 42. He is goodlooking but without his celebrity status even a guy with his looks would struggle in banging 21 year old HB7 and above.

Just think back to when you were 21. When I was 21 I though 30 was so fvcking old. Same with these 21 year old hotties. LOL

The problem I have with the younger ones(19, 20, 21,) is that they look like GIRL'S; undeveloped. I love 'em when they look like women. Plus they don't have much experience in the sack, which kinda turns me off. Regardless though, I'll still nail 'em. Last young chick I hooked up with was 19. That was almost a month and a half ago. I have to say though, this one was great in the sack..and of course her being hot made it that much greater.

lookyoung said:

Girls that are in the 18-21 age range consider anything over 28 to be old.

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Yea, but it really doesn't matter as much as some guys would have you believe.

There is limit on gaming woman much younger than you. FOR EXAMPLE if your 35 and look like your 40 your going to struggle in gaming 21 year old girls period. You might get lucky here and there but you will not get lucky on a consistent basis.

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But the limit is set as much by YOU and your attitude towards the age difference than anything else.

Just think back to when you were 21. When I was 21 I though 30 was so fvcking old. Same with these 21 year old hotties. LOL

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True, but you have to account for a couple of things.

First of all, it's different for women than it is for men. When I was 21 I didn't have any sort of attraction to women over the age of 24 or 25. Women, however......different story. They might SAY they would never date a guy over 26, 29, 33, whatever, but what they say and what they are attracted to and what they would actually do in a given situation is usually completely different.

The second thing is the break down of the generation gap. I've said it several times, there isn't that much difference any more between 20 somethings and 30 somethings. Both groups listen to a lot of the same music, do a lot of the same things. People of different ages can relate to each other better nowadays. If you don't start acting like an old fart women won't treat you like one, simple as that.

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The problem I have with the younger ones(19, 20, 21,) is that they look like GIRL'S; undeveloped. I love 'em when they look like women. Plus they don't have much experience in the sack, which kinda turns me off. Regardless though, I'll still nail 'em. Last young chick I hooked up with was 19. That was almost a month and a half ago. I have to say though, this one was great in the sack..and of course her being hot made it that much greater.

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Hmmm....undeveloped....not to me.

And I haven't found younger women to be any better or worse than older ones. Matter of fact, the best sex I've had has been with 21-24 yr olds. It doesn't take a chick long to figure out what to do in the sack. By the time they are 21 they probably aren't gonna get much better.

STR8UP- You bring up some valid points. I am 30 and have fvcked around with quite a few girls that were younger than me. But when girls are in that 18-21 age range they are not going to go for a 40 year old guy period.

Now there are exceptions to rule.... Strippers, and hookers. If your extremely rich.. (Rich meaning drive a ferrari) Worth at least 10 million. If your a nightclub owner. If your her boss and can help her get promoted. Unless your social status is through the roof gaming 18-21 year olds on a regular basis is not going to happen.

Now I am 30 look about 25-26 and am very goodlooking. I still feel I am pushing the envelope when gaming 20 year old girls. What about when I am 40..... I don't think its impossible, but highley unlikely to game a 20 year old girls on a regular basis.

Are you guys serious. ??
I am 50 years old and I have a 28 year old HB who is a great Salsa dancer and is wet and ready all night. I also have a 41 year old FWB and a 56 year old for when I want to sit on the couch and get my neck rubbed and watch Idol or Dancing with the Stars.
Geez I love being "elderly "..

STR8UP said:

Hmmm....undeveloped....not to me.

And I haven't found younger women to be any better or worse than older ones. Matter of fact, the best sex I've had has been with 21-24 yr olds. It doesn't take a chick long to figure out what to do in the sack. By the time they are 21 they probably aren't gonna get much better.

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So true.

Yes Jophil28 they are serious. The 41yr old and 28 yr old sound OK, but I don't know about the 56 yr old.

I like the 56 year old - she rubs my neck and does what she is told without the all the self-centered crap and drama that younger women create..
Go get yourself one of these 'mature ladies' ! They are NICE and they are grateful.

I will disagree about this. When I was 38, I dated a 19 y.o., and later that year when I was 39, I dated a 20 y.o. (different woman.) My buddy was 52 and dated a 16 y.o. (age of consent in her area), and her parents wanted them to get married. Now he is dating a 26 y.o.

Just take care of yourself. There are woman that are a decade younger than me, and now they look like shiit while I look the same (OK, with a steadily increasing doughnut hole bald spot, and some grey chest hair.)

I think the age difference between the genders should be judged on a case by case basis with what the man/woman wants in their life at that very point of meeting each other.

Good advice Str8up, backs up my observations.

Never frame it as you being too old for her, rather, always as shes too young (immature, inexperienced) for you.

Now if I only had (more) patience for the young uns... LOL

STR8UP said:

The 26 yr old I've been banging lately said she was worried when she first met me cause she thought I was in my early 20's. Good to hear when you are getting close to middle age, lol.

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You sound like you're in your early teens.

canonman said:

You sound like you're in your early teens.

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Quite a constructive first post there buddy.