"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are older women less into making out?

Mike32ct

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IME, a younger female will make out with you until your tongue falls off, but older ones are MUCH less into it.

Anyone else notice that or is it just me? I like a hot makeout session, but it seems it's mostly a younger thing...

For example,


18 - 24 Will tongue you for days

25 -29 Still likes heavy makeouts

30 - 31 Brief makeout then foreplay then s*x

32+ Light kissing then s*x lol

33-35 Peck on the lips then s*x

36+ No kissing, then intercourse (i.e. hooker s*x) LOL

I'm exaggerating to make my point :).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Desdinova

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I find that every girl is different with her kissing techniques. Some like it more than others, some do some weird 5hit, and some are fvcking horrible kissers. The main thing I've learned is that a woman will kiss you the way she WANTS to be kissed.

I love a good tongue wrestling match, all slobbery and spitty. I mostly find women don't like that. My current gf likes licking my tongue with no actual kissing.
 

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I think you're on to something, Mike32ct. I've noticed that myself.
 

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Do you really think a 40 year old something woman who gets sex nowhere near as often as young women is desperate for tongue action or to get her vag stimulated??

You gotta remember that older women don't get sex as often. They don't give a damn about you kissing them they want the tool! You got your priorities wrong if you're thinking about kissing them or showing these b|tches some affection! They want action and they want it fast!

If you want to hold hands, kiss a lot and watch movies and do "fun" activities and all that silly stuff then go get yourself a younger gal. An older woman who has probably been on a cold streak of a couple months or maybe longer is thinking about only 1 thing...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There are some women 40+ who enjoy sex like young guys do. And kissing. I had a couple in chambers last week. It was awesome.

A lot of young guys go for older women because young gals won't give them any love, let alone the time of day. Young girls ain't my cup of tea. Older women are more fun and more sexual IMO.

But they still have to choose you. Women, no matter how old, can get sex anytime they want.

To each his own.

Case closed.
 

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f283000 said:
Do you really think a 40 year old something woman who gets sex nowhere near as often as young women is desperate for tongue action or to get her vag stimulated
Does that mean they're that easy? I would really appreciate tips on gaming 39-40 year olds as I got one's number a couple days ago. But she is pretty hot and at first I thought she was like 33-35. any advice for that age group?
 

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Espi said:
I find that eye contact and a nice smile can attract just as many MILF's as young college co-eds.
Being physically and financially fit will do the same thing.
 
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