"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What Men Really Want ?

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What Men Really Want answers all your burning questions about the men in your life, such as:

What do men look for in a date vs. a soul mate?
Is sex really that important?
Why is it so hard to express how they feel?
How do they define their manhood?
Where does faith fit into their lives?
Do the answers change as men age?


… and many more you didn’t even think to ask!

What Men Really Want is a documentary film about what men want most in relationships and life. The purpose of our blog is to offer insights for questions about “What is Christian Dating” and “What is a Christian marriage”
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What do men look for in a date vs. a soul mate? SEX
Is sex really that important? YES
Why is it so hard to express how they feel? SEX
How do they define their manhood? SEX
Where does faith fit into their lives? PENIS
Do the answers change as men age? NO
 
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I'm not going to address all your questions specifically. But loyalty and devotion. Women today lack real loyalty and devotion to their man or any man.
 
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Dear Aubree,
You are a Woman,posing as a Man,as a Christian how can you justify misrepresenting yourself?
 
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Because all men are the same and want the same exact things as every other man, all the time!

What Men Really Want is a documentary film about what men want most in relationships and life. The purpose of our blog is to offer insights for questions about “What is Christian Dating” and “What is a Christian marriage”
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Why do I get the feeling that this documentary was made to push a christian agenda? Hmmmm....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Men want two things:

1. Sex
2. Submission

Pretty easy.. yet most modern hoes can only do the first one. Then they wonder why the phone stops ringing, the man stops opening up, and the wedding ring never comes. :crackup: :crackup:
 
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Aubree said:
What Men Really Want answers all your burning questions about the men in your life, such as:

What do men look for in a date vs. a soul mate?
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1 Cor 7:2 says to avoid fornication each person must be married. So, if you are not marrying then you are in sin. (i.e. either you are fornicating and not committing, or you are a silent fornicator at heart and fapping to porn). Either it's your fault (i.e. you are refusing to marry and have the option to marry), or it's God's fault (either He's too slow in providing a mate, or He is not providing a mate, or the person you have the option to marry with is not pretty enough in which case you just want to sex her -- perhaps that's iffy).

Aubree said:
Is sex really that important?
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The Bible says the other partner is not supposed to say "no."
(1 Cor 7:5). If she doesn't sex then she's supposed to sex then she's rebelling against God. Likewise, I'm supposed to sex her whenever she wants it too.

Aubree said:
Why is it so hard to express how they feel?
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Who said it was hard.

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How do they define their manhood?
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By being more like Christ. When we are born-again, we are then on a journey of becoming more holy and sanctified day by day until we are more Christ-like.

Aubree said:
Where does faith fit into their lives?
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It is our lives. Jesus is on the throne in our hearts and we are His sheep and hear His voice.

Aubree said:
Do the answers change as men age?
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No they don't.

Aubree said:
… and many more you didn’t even think to ask!

What Men Really Want is a documentary film about what men want most in relationships and life. The purpose of our blog is to offer insights for questions about “What is Christian Dating” and “What is a Christian marriage”
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God has the right person and when the time is right I just meet her, get married, and go through life together on a journey with Him in the centre.

May look at this link later. Thank-you for sharing this with us and God bless.
 
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Come on guys, this is obviously spam for some product, and it is clearly targeted at women.

And "Aubree", this is a Men's forum, so no, we don't really have burning questions about the men in our lives, haha, but stick around, maybe you can learn a thing or two about men and what we want for your next book or whatever it is you're trying to sell.
 
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