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And here's a question regarding an online interaction I'm having right now. I have an on again, off again type interaction going with this one HB I knew from a few years back. Anyway, I recently commented on one of her pictures in which she looks really good. Most people had responded...

I've recently changed up my profile A LOT, because I realised I had a lot of unnecessary stuff on there - stuff that was basically me showing off to myself more than anything else, and I guess wasn't that appealing to HBs. I had a lot of intellectual quotes, reams of artists that I liked...

My big problem with this article is simply that it adds no value. It's just all negativity. He suggests no solution and focuses too much on being "normal." He forgets that it is often the abnormal people in society who makes the biggest changes and push the world forward. The author just...

Besides being condescending towards regular guys just because they're not into being a PUA, this 'convert the friends' attitude has some other issues: Okay, to be fair, sometimes it's just about being enthusiastic or wanting to help your lonely buddies out by sharing something that's helped...

Aside from that, every school of thought about the best way to get laid has its own little quirks. Some of these quirks are weird and unhealthy to hold. It could be a technique it espouses or an belief about women it holds. It may be an attitude or disposition it wants you to have. The whole...

Wanting to be a guru who's looked up to by other guys Another item in the search for self-esteem. Lots of guys who post in forums or hang out with other Community members want to be looked up to as gurus. They want guys asking them for advice or gushing over their latest post. I mean, most...

I'm not saying there's no truth at all in these statements, of course there's some. These statements do describe some women, or the way some women act in certain circumstances. But taken as a whole, you gotta admit this set of beliefs is pretty negative, misogynistic even. Just as all women...

Another visual example is the idea of 'peacocking' to get attention. Do it right and you're a super cool, unique, intriguing guy. Do it wrong and you're some dweeb wearing weird ass clothes. A skewed perspective towards other guys Being in the Community can warp the way you see other males...

I post this here without comment. I thought this would inspire some interesting discussion. Thoughts? Credit: http://www.datinggroundwork.com/community Warning: This article is really long and detailed, but worth a read in my opinion. There are more than twenty five points, in no...

Guys, I was wondering if any of you have come across a program that changes the wording/or changes the way the words are ordered in a word processing document? I have a crazy project I'm working on, and I have written some stuff that I want to fiddle around with and change the order, or...

It's great to read other people's accounts of their similar problems. So thanks a lot for that, guys. As well as all the other advice in this thread. You've been great. I guess this is the online equivalent of making the sufferer aware that other people suffer to, so as to ease his suffering...

Hey DJVladdy, You're way off base here, man. If you read my posts, I mention, on more than one occasion, that I don't want to pursue medication to get rid of my OCD. I want to do it without the use of drugs! That's why I find the suggestions for alternative methods (such as Cognitive...

Thanks for the reply. However, I'd rather overcome this problem without the use of any kind of medication. I wonder if that's possible.

I had many goals when I first got involved in this community. One I them had nothing really to do with getting girls, but, obviously, it could play an indirect part if I can get a grip on this. So... I've never posted about this on an internet forum. And, to be honest, only my close family...

Jump in my bed!

One of my biggest Inner Game breakthroughs came a little while ago, but I've only now just realised how to put it into words. I used to see fear as just fear; something to be afraid of. Now, when I get that feeling of fear, I get a feeling that I need to investigate it. We all fear the...

This is just a piece of bull**** journalism. Just very bad stuff, plain and simple. The reverse can so easily be true. Here's another, much more relaxed, way of handling an interview with a pick-up artist: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2bJH7mrNfQ

Any high status woman.

I see this book and it's various laws being parroted a lot on this forum. Although I was skeptical at first, I am halfway through this book now and finding it an incredibly useful tome. Definately the most amoral self-help book I've ever read, but just filled to the brim with truth. What I'm...

You need to re-read this sentence again, over and over. The time that she dumps you should not be the next time you read this. Right now, your behaviour is far from DJ-esque. Take the advice already dispatched in this thread; slow it down, look for those SOIs, and make sure you keep your...