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    Can I save my LTR?

    Okay, Roughly 4 things can happen here 1.)You break up and do not remain friends 2.)You break up and remain close/best friends 3.)You go back to being in a relationship where you are both each other's priorities 4.)You become FBs I think she wants number 2 while your preference would...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    Dude, You were loosing, turned things round and now wow, somehow you have become her friend - the best possible outcome for her. You are hanging out, having long emotional conversations, decorating shops together - basically everything except sex. I know it is really hard and you have won...
  3. M

    Morality: FBing married woman.

    Too many single girls in the world to be going after a married woman
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    Sexual attraction in LTR - is it gone, or just a phase? (Long post)

    Are you sexually attarcted to other girls ? If yes dump her. If no then that's a whole different story
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    would you ask a woman out even if you sense there is low interest?

    Ask her in an ambiguous way or like it is possibly a group thing and others will be there (they will of course not be able to make it) I was once offered tickets for a tennis match ad I told a girl who liked tennis very much that I had the tickets was she interested. she said she didn't think...
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    girlfriend always chatting online with her guy 'friend'

    I know many will not agree but I would be blunt and just tell her to stop chatting to the chap and see how she reacts. If she values the relationship she should easily be able to say to the guy my bf is not happy about this so we have to stop. I once used to go to the gym with a female...
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    14 Year marriage/22 year relationship over

    Hi Thanks to all for replies and it is in keeping with what I have been thinking the last few days. I am work so will post a more detailed response when I get home. In the meantine she has however come twice to beg me to stay, once with members of mine and her family. I think maybe she has...
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    girl FRIEND comes over 3am after clubbing..

    Agree with you chance- that she didn't make it easy but not sure why you didn't just try anyway. She was in your bed at 3am, uninvited. After not trying and telling her she is attractive, and the key is the sequence of events, you stand very little chance going forward
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    14 Year marriage/22 year relationship over

    Thanks. I have seen her rage and she actually threatened to call the police. Since I hadn't done anything I knew she would make up stories and I could end getting a record. I believe this is one of the reasons why so many marriages end up in divorce and why women are quick to want out. I now see...
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    14 Year marriage/22 year relationship over

    Not yet as to me unless she does a very drastic about face (and even then I don't know if I can trust her any more) the marriage is over. I am not making any plans for any future relationship with her but will think about this for future relationships. That is why I am here again after a three...
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    14 Year marriage/22 year relationship over

    We are in the UK and I think she knows and I know she will probably get to keep the house, car, get alimony and child support as I earn about 4 times what she does. I have accepted this because I also have a business that I started 2 years ago which should take of this year. She knows a little...
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    14 Year marriage/22 year relationship over

    Agree. Obviously there is much more to this but all I can advise people here is not to take any BS from the very start and not to ignore it as I did as It only gets worse and will end here. My own lesson from this is ignoring to keep the peace is immature, leads to disrespect and is a disastrous...
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    14 Year marriage/22 year relationship over

    Not sure how we got here but she definitely reached here before me. I would say the marriage has been not great almost from the beginning but got worse in the last year. She feels I am not as involved as I should be and she does everything. Because of this over the years she has tried to...
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    14 Year marriage/22 year relationship over

    After a minor argument (my opinion) 2 days ago she asked me to leave. Said things weren't working one of us had to leave. So I told her you leave. I Went out later to cool off and she had locked the doors so had to sleep in the car. Yesterday morning she had to open it. Said she wanted...
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    My PUA friend gave me VERY GOOD advice about girls and dating

    The world is full of men who have kept in contact with girls, some for 10 years and supported them through many boyfriends without sniffing the furry cat. You will probably fcuk 10 - 20% of these women but is it really worth the time. No matter what anyone says if you have known a girl for 1...
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    Interesting Situation w/ Girl

    Next time fcuk her in d bus. Gals like this are really hard to drop bcos you were in sight of the finish line but drop her you must. put it down to experience. realise you will not fcuk every gal you get involved with for one reason or the other.
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    I Called my gf, and it ended with her family all laughing at me

    You are not angry for the reason you think you are. Question you need to ask yourself is why did this bother you so much. There are things about everyone people will criticise but a person confident in himself will not loose control and blow up. If you really do talk slow and it bothers you why...
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    Found out GF been cheating on me but she doesnt know.

    If you are really sure she is cheating then u cannot seriously think of going on the trip with her. No matter what you do keep your self respect. Do not beg or loose your temper just walk away and kill all contact. After u get your money ofcourse
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    How back out of this awkward situation?

    or maybe she will be impressed that you bashed up your friend for her and you will protect if necessary - just joking. More likely she will be scared of you and what you might do if you guys were dating and she smiles at another guy. Don't think you can get out of this so just move on
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    What To Do With Muslim Women!!

    Noob - One day you will encounter a mean mofo
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