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  1. J

    activities vs. exercise?

    the short answer is a great answer. thanks a lot for your advice, i will be looking into getting my diet into shape. burritos and beer probably isn't helping much!!
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    activities vs. exercise?

    Hi guys.. I am very into riding trails on my dirtbike (I have a dualsport which I use for commute and ride dirt back home). I go camping for 2 days at a time about 2 times a month. I've noticed that since I started riding a year ago, my body has made some huge changes. My bike is a dual sport...
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    lets just be friends...

    looks and good personality aren't linked.. its just that most guys with good looks know how to package them right for women.. which is in a personality that caters to their looks. i've got a friend whos from some place in south america, very exotic looking and all my female friends tell me hes...
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    Can you escape the "friend zone" by becoming a jerk after friendship?

    definently. i mostly feel confident AFTER i know that i have more options that might even be more interested. although i can tell this is fading everytime i link something i do with some success i've achieved.. i dont think it will ever feel 'right' until i am turning down what i want because i...
  5. J

    Should I date women who have kids

    if you were looking to take care of a kid you would of had one yourself. if you want to date a woman with a kid, understand your priorities. (i do not date women with kids as im very good with kids and do not want a needy woman seeing me as an ideal father figure.... and making it happen.)
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    The "Emo"/"Wimpster" phenomen

    you dated a girl really into music....but there is a difference between someone genuinely interested in their interests and someone playing up the pinup model of the "scene". from what you've said your friend wasn't necessarily a scene *****, just had friends like that. i grew up listening to...
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    Can you escape the "friend zone" by becoming a jerk after friendship?

    the point was even if you got LJBF'd as a **** test, this situation is no where near ideal & will only lead to questions that have no answers... so dont do it! i dont think it will ever be worth the hassle as a real man would have better things to do. but theres always excpetions :D try not...
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    The "Emo"/"Wimpster" phenomen

    scene *****s attract scene *****s. be a part of the scene and adjust your DJ manuevers accordingly... or chase a girl who isn't a part of a scene. what is a scene girl going to do with a guy who has absolutely nothing to do with what shes about? you'd have to take her to bull**** concerts where...
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    Can you escape the "friend zone" by becoming a jerk after friendship?

    if you f'd up and became head over heels over a girl who put you in the friend zone.. i've got some advice. a) dont do it again! b) let her know that a friendship wasn't your intention and leave her. give her 3 weeks to call back. if she does, meet up with her, read her signals, she is she...
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    lets just be friends...

    well i was agreeing with a vague paraphrase but.. ;D if you get turned down by a girl, she has told you "you can't have what i have to offer". so if later on you actually "get" it, you didn't get anything. you just happened to be around when she was willing to give out what she had to offer...
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    lets just be friends...

    i would not continue talking to a girl who ljbf'd me. theres no point because being ljbf'd is just being turned down in what fems think is a 'nice way'. or even such a blatently obvious display of disinterest that you'd split with your tail inbetween your legs anyways. if you get LJBF'd then...
  12. J

    A secret.

    sapiens, i have to admit i know these facts like the back of my hand and for whatever reason, i try to ignore them. i've always had a theory that girls dont take guys seriously until they're older and guys START by taking girls seriously. by the time a guy is 21, a few things are possible. he's...
  13. J

    I have no wheels, and I must date!

    meet girls who use the same form of transportation you do... girls on the bus etc. for a while all i had was a motorcycle and i thought it was hindering my ability... however girls don't really seem to care at all about picking you up for a date. of course if they dont like you its a...
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    lets just be friends...

    you know the more i think about it, there are certain types of guys that can do this... they are chatty by nature & usually extremely curious so naturally they can chat up girls with relative ease.. but charm only goes so far. there are other guys that need to read this message board simply to...
  15. J

    lets just be friends...

    in a totally fantasy environment in which female friends i dont chase would offer themselves to me? hell yeah.
  16. J

    lets just be friends...

    well ultimately if you're a DJ and a female friend is what you want (i love em!) then go for it. however there is a big difference between thinking a girl is cool and being friends with her and getting LJBF'd and shrugging it off as 'well shes cool anyways and i'm not really into her cause i met...
  17. J

    How do you get the mindset of a DJ?

    i have to disagree bro. i've lived here all my life and haven't seen movie stars. i go to santa monica and hollywood and whatever other places movie stars in california are supposed to be at. me myself i dont watch tv or listen to the radio much as i'm heavily into my hobbies and have not done...
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    A secret.

    well i can relate to sapiens point from personal experience. although i would never admit this to girls, i am severely damaged from a past relationship and because of this it is very hard for me to take a girl 'seriously'. to be honest its been years and i dont think it will ever happen again...
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    A good opener to a smoking girl

    dont go for chicks that smoke, they have bad skin and they're used to being btiches cause pretty people dont smoke and hate smokers therefore they hate btiches that smoke ;)
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    Ok...If You Guys Are So Good...Fix This!!!

    most people get discouraged at their efforts until they can see a direct connection between effort -> goal. luckily most things most people get discouraged at, are little things like changing your tire or assembling something. when you get discouraged on something that you feel should be...
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