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@BPH I appreciate the answer man! That's where my old blue pill brain crops up. Been trying hard to get out of that old way of thinking; that ALL women want marriage and some nice guy to settle down with. The struggle I have is conveying that to them, that yes, you can give into those sexual...

What's going on, thanks for doing an AMA @BPH . When it comes to attraction, some 7+ women are insufferable. Could have the best features: ass, tits, face, legs, etc, but I can't stand being around them. It could be their attitude that's off, sometimes it's their personality, other times they...

36, what's worrying?

This would be Day 4. I wouldn't consider this a breakup, only had a few dates, light kissing and thats it. Chemistry was good, no blow up or argument to make her go distant. Still sucks like a breakup, so I'm gonna treat it as one. I still think NC is the way to go although my logical brain...

Think less and do more. That's harder than it sounds for an overthinker....this falls in line with the going out every night advice. Go out every night, no time to sit at home or in the car, over-analyzing how I could've done or said something different.

I like this advice. I gotta admit, the fear in my chest thinking about going out every night is deep. I know this will help me with my interactions, but it's like weightlifting, should I really be trying to throw on the most plates when I've barely lifted at all? I'm all good with doing the...

Yeah, I read the books but not a lot of action to follow. Thinking I can "think" my way out of my slump is what's keeping me where I am. Gotta act more.

Words to live by. I appreciate your input!

That is some profound advice! While talking to the Tinder girl I hooked up with, she is VERY receptive when I speak from a place of abundance. When I said the other dates I've been on don't compare to the date I had with her, she texted me back and forth for 3 hours! That "imaginary lover" is a...

I'm a 36 years old and I've recently separated from my wife of 15 years. I've never been on my own (from home, to Job Corp (tradeschool with dorms), to roommate, to girlfriend/marriage) until now. I was never a Don Juan growing up, and had a lot of trouble getting girls/women. Foolishly, I...