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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Oh the addicition to social media - what is it with chicks these days...constantly seeking validation by posting selfies I would love to meet a chick who didnt give a **** about insta or facebook - would be so much easier. The amount of dudes sliding in their DM's....they love the attention
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    Behaviour of the dumper

    Oh I’m under no elusion it’ll be flipped onto me some how. Basically I’m toxic as I went on her phone or some ****e. I haven’t said I’m meeting her. I’m going to ask her to drop the trainers round and leave them on the porch I’m not opening myself up to anymore hurt or torment anymore.
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    Behaviour of the dumper

    Genuinely , I collect sneakers and she won a pair of the new SB jewels on a raffle….I can’t pay resale for them She still has aload of my clothes etc…I’m not worried about them I just want the trainers
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    Behaviour of the dumper

    So I had a WhatsApp off her this evening ( she unblocked me on that too then ) Asking how I was. Do I still want the trainers she got me and whether I could send her the money if so. And whether I wanted to talk to ‘clear the air’ What the actual **** does that mean! I want the trainers I’m...
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    Behaviour of the dumper

    Yeah I get you. Being blocked by her on everything was a blessing. I don’t understand why she would unblock me just on Facebook unless she’s trying to get me to reach out. Imagine if I did that ha, I’d literally have no self respect left. I know what needs to be done and it’s just putting the...
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    Behaviour of the dumper

    Ju I appreciate your words. A few weeks back with another argument she really hit home how I’m 36. That if I want a family I need to pull my finger out - some bits hit home and has just made me self reflect but too much. Honestly when I look back there was a lot of **** that I should not of...
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    Behaviour of the dumper

    Starting to realise there was hardly any respect from her. She was allowing her bro to move into her flat for a while. ( she had a flat but lived at her parents ) I asked her one day last week if she wouldn’t mind grabbing my food that I had down her flat and bringing it back. She got angry and...
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    Behaviour of the dumper

    Sorry man - didnt mean to come across rude - Guess my brain is working faster than my fingers currently. Not sleeping much will do that to ya :/
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    Behaviour of the dumper

    When you put it like that - Yes I totally see your point. If I was listening to my story I would give exactly the same advice. Funnily enough a mate of mine recently has been dumped by his partner - two days later she is with someone else ( clearly going on behind his back for a while ) 4 months...
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    Behaviour of the dumper

    I understand both your points. Looking back at some of her previous behaviour I took alot, when ever there were arguments she would either leave or threaten to leave and I chased her. Just hard - after being told things for so long, with her always playing the victim its affect my self esteem...
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    Behaviour of the dumper

    Hey all, will try and keep this short. Was with a girl for around 14 months ( she’s 28, I’m 36 ) Went into the relationship having been burned before. Was open about this to this new girl. quite early I would catch her in a lie about who a guy was she was talking to. Being told it’s just a...
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