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I seem to be attracting women who want long term relationships. While I’m not necessarily opposed to this idea I do not wish to live with anyone, raise someone else’s children (in a stepfather role) or get married again. Too many legal risks and other downsides (e.g. quality and quantity of...

Had some really interesting discussion with my ex. Some background - although she said her on button was always switched on with me and I gave her intense Os, she did not really have a strong s*x drive. She said she understood if someone had to go outside the relationship to satisfy themselves...

Thanks for your replies. It’s early days so time will tell. She does have a body to die for which is probably distracting me admittedly. However I think the price of ongoing admission will be quite high on my part as she has not much finances although earning a decent wage. Her ex blew their...

Just keen to hear some thoughts on my situation. I’ve been spinning plates and have recently connected with a Vietnamese girl 9 years my junior (I’m 56, she’s 47). She was divorced in 2017 after a 22 year marriage (she met her husband while only 18) and has only had one other relationship...

Pet mums. They will always prioritise their pets in terms of affection ahead of you. You will always come a distant second. Dating a pet obsessed girl at the moment. Constantly talks to her pets in a baby voice, cuddles them, tells them how much she loves them etc. She wants to be buried with...

Women are only useful for men for three things: 1. Raising children and being a good mother to them. If like me you are divorced and have kids of your own then this no longer applies. 2. Companionship. This only applies to guys who are needy and have nothing else going on in their life...

Probably some overlaps. My top 5: 1. Not compatible in bed. Combination of many things. Poor body image. Lack of enthusiasm. Too many boundaries or ones that don’t sync with mine. Not willing to do different things to keep things interesting. Frequency and/or quality of bedroom activities...

My ex who was in a relationship asked me over last week to drop off one of her books. After an hour of sexual tension she led me upstairs and I f’d her brains out. Stayed the night and left the next day. Asked her later if she felt bad given she was in a relationship. She said ‘no, I felt I was...

The 58 year old is getting less and less attractive with every date. Constantly looking at herself in mirrors. Deleting photos that don’t show her ‘best’. Carrying much more weight than what I thought judged by when I feel her hips and take a long hard look at her in the harsh light of day...

Your marriage will never be the same if you indulge in your fantasy with your wife. There’s a real chance it will implode. S*xual jealousy is hard to overcome. My advice is to stick to porn and find some good sites or actresses you enjoy, discretely hire a few escorts and keep your mouth shut or...

OP, older women are much worse. I’m 56 and the worst women for entitlement are those 50 and above. The levels of flaking, sh*t tests and hoops you have to jump through to get them to an in person date is out of this world. I think I’ve mentioned before a 58 year old I am seeing had a 43 year...

It was bizarre. Like a stream of unfiltered consciousness over 3 days. Hundreds of text messages. All of them saying how fantastic she was. She even texted me photos of the numerous simps who she had been with and were still trying to get into her pants. Her distaste of them was immense. Laughed...

*left wing.

She’s left I just think she’s the first girl I’ve dated that’s way out of my league in terms of attractiveness and I’m just not escalating and simping. I’ve never done this with anyone else so it’s a humble learning experience. For the sake of potentially developing a severe case of oneitis I...

Message received. Will let you know how it goes down.

I also could ask her back to my place on Saturday night for a drink or coffee. The event will finish about 9:30pm.

Thanks for the advice Pierce. The 58 year old artist is putting out mixed signals but unless I change the dynamic I won’t know if she’s just into the gravy train of free meals and experiences. The consensus from my mates and other girls is that 6 dates is more than enough time to work out if...

She is an 8 or 9 to me so happy to see what happens for the next few dates. But I agree if she was a 7 or less then would have pulled the pin by now. Never been with an 8 or 9 so keen to experience this if possible. But time is running out.

Potentially. Won’t last for too much longer and the dates will be cheaper as I’ve said above. All good practice. Other plates in play.