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    Gradual success

    I haven't posted here in ages, but I peek in here periodically just to see how things are going. Back in 2003, when I first found this place through a friend of mine, I was familiar with the PUA community, but was not having any real success. Sure, I've gotten a few numbers and dates here and...
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    Are you living the life you want?

    Oh, I totally agree. Once you start working on your life, you will find that the women will start to appear. However, you might get all AFC because you're not used to the attention. This is when you need to work on your skills.
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    Are you living the life you want?

    As you can see, I haven't posted here in a long time. In fact, I'd forgotten about sosuave.net and fastseduction.com until I picked up a copy of "The Game" by Neil Strauss. Throughout my life, I've always been good at school. I'd always been good at other things as well, such as music...
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    To all aspiring DJs, don't despair!

    Role models I'm so happy to hear that you guys are being inspired by my post. There are a few people that I have to thank who have helped me immensely in this journey. Don't underestimate the value of talking to other guys who know how the game works. Most of them will be very willing to...
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    I realize I am a dj.

    Good to hear . . . This is exactly what I am trying to say in the thread that I started this morning. When you have you inner game in order, things start to happen to you. You can't rush it. It has to happen at its own pace, but when it finally happens, watch out! I'm happy to hear...
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    To all aspiring DJs, don't despair!

    Glad to help I'm glad that I could help out my fellow DJs. I haven't been to sosuave.com in quite some time, but I noticed that many of the posts are very similar to my early posts. Basically, I was asking others "what should I do when the girl does X?" Questions like this show a basic...
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    To all aspiring DJs, don't despair!

    Gather 'round aspiring DJs, let me tell you all a story. First, the key point of the story is this: do everything you can to reach your potential. That’s it. If you do that, you will be a success not only with women, but in life as well. Now, the story: This is a story that probably...
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    If you've managed to lose weight--how has it changed your life?

    I lost between 15-20 pounds and it feels great. I'm about 10 pounds away from my target. Effects of weight loss: More energy. I don't feel as if anything remotely physical is a pain in the ass anymore. Endurance: I've gotten to the point where a game of pick-up basketball is no...
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    Advice for uncurable acne!!

    This is a subject that, unfortunately, I know too much about. When I was younger (junior high, high school), I was pretty successful with women. I dated fairly frequently and had a large social circle. However, everything came to a halt when I was about 18. Between the ages of 18-25, I...
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    Interview with a natural PUA -- reframing your focus

    You're right, of course. My original motivation for starting the thread in the first place was almost a reaction to all the quick fix, technique-based posts that I'd been seeing at the time. I wanted to remind everyone that the big picture was there and to not lose focus on it. The original...
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    F-buddy advice

    Re: Re: Who you callin' '*****'? Wow . . . sensitive much? I was referring to a post that was deleted by the mods. It was done by a guy who called himself "Rick James." In fact, if the mods had left the post, you would see that it was a tongue-in-cheek comment. My bad for not...
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    The Don Juan Is In You

    Very nice . . . I'm very impressed with your post. Your profile states that you're 15 -- however, if you really are 15, you have the awareness and mindset of someone who is much older. Most men don't ever figure out what you have discovered -- or if they do, they don't do it until much later...
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    F-buddy advice

    Who you callin' '*****'? Anyone else besides a washed-up R&B pioneer want to weigh in on this?
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    F-buddy advice

    How would you guys approach an F-buddy situation? Basically, my question is this: in your experience, how do women who are into casual sex handle a conversation about becoming f-buddies? Or is it much easier to sleep with them first and then sort the pieces out later?
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    how and what brought you to this board??

    How I got here . . . I actually found this site via a friend of mine. However, by then, I was well on my way on remedying my AFC ways. While a few months ago, I would always say that I was the "nice guy" who never got the girl -- and on the surface that was true. However, my biggest...
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    overly-successful women (ugh)

    I love successful women. Some of the sexiest women I've know are the ones who are good at what they do, yet still remember that they are women. I remember this female Italian law student that I met when I was traveling. Not only was she extremely intelligent, fun, and had a great sense of...
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    i was hit on by a MAN tonight... i am pissed

    It happens. I don't know how many times it happened to me when I visited Europe. I'd be out in clubs with some friends and invariably, some English or German guy would come up and try to chat me up. I wondered why this was the case, but I just wrote it off and was flattered. Hell, if...
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    Does "race" matter at all to a girl?

    Re: 40quid: From what I understand, this stereotype is from action movies where you have Asian villans, or stuff like the "Joy Luck Club" where all the men were AFC-losers or domestic violence poster children. Like I said, yes, there is a reason why a stereotype exists, but that doesn't...
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    Does "race" matter at all to a girl?

    Re: It absolutely matters You've raise some good points. However, I took a narrower view on the original question. I thought he meant "race" as in your ethnicity. I defined "ethnicity" solely by your physical features. If you throw culture into it, then yes, the equation gets a bit more...
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    Does "race" matter at all to a girl?

    Re: Not really an issue for me I actually have run into the same phenomenon. I'm ethnically Asian, but I have the best luck with caucasian women. I've had the most trouble with Asian girls. Oh well, they're missing out!
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