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How is it obvious though? I would have thought she learnt the first time, but I guess not.

Im really not a troll. Do whatever you want.

We’ve known eachother since nursery, which is 20 odd years. Never have I developed any romantic feelings for her. It’s just a friendship, nothing else I get out from it, nor do I want anything more from it.

She’s just my best friend. I honestly don’t know what else I can say. I have no romantic interest in her whatsoever, and I just can’t be bothered to say this yet again.

I’m not a God damn troll. Why would I be trolling about this anyway? I’m genuinely worried about my friend.

Update: Turns out that my friend told her ex that she “likes the idea of them doing something together but she’s afraid of the result” This is probably why he’s told her he still has feelings for her and that he thinks he has a chance.

I’m NOT in love with her. I love her as a friend, and that’s that. So you think there’s a chance that she’s going back to him?

I’m a troll? Come on man, I’m being serious. I’ve already said that I’m interested in another girl, but dating is pretty much impossible right now.

As much as I pains me, you probably right that I have to stand back. I havent actually suggested anything to her, just been listening to her when she told me he sent the apology and the friend request. She took her time to accept his request, which made me think she was considering it.

I suppose the only positive thing is that she didn’t respond to his apology message, but then again, why accept his friend request? He told her why he did it, which I assume would have given her some closure? He obviously wants her back since he’s told her he still loves her, unless he’s...

So I should take it that my friend wants to go back to him?

She’s JUST a friend. My romantic interest lies with another woman. It’s astonishing to hear that having a platonic female friend is foreign to people on this site.

Why does it matter to you that I'm just friends with her? What is it to you?

You’re right, absolutely right. I feel that maybe she’s hoping beyond hope that he’s changed. I will leave her choose whatever she chooses and continue to support her when she needs supporting.

I really don’t, plus I have my eyes set on another girl.

Why would I be finished?

What you says is without a doubt the truth. Part of the reason his message made me so uneasy is because how could you love someone and do something that callous? We can’t be certain, of course, however it’s not hard to assume he wants her back - but for what reason, that’s what’s entirely...

The former. I witnessed what happened to her the first time, I stood there with her throughout these years, and I do not want her to be hurt again.

Can I just say that I have no romantic inclination towards my friend. What do you think is going on?

What do you mean what I think? I don’t think there’s anything I can really do other than continue to support her no matter what choice she makes. Even though it’s concerning me quite some bit... I’m 25 now.