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    When you call out a Borderline on their manipulation

    This is suicide for the relationship. Given that you've exposed their games, they automatically recognise you can't be gamed, and their shame-o-meter goes berserk at the implications for their tainted self-image. Since they rely so heavily on external validation beyond the regular woman, the...
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    This is a beautiful post, hits on so many important points, but most of all I think it just sees things for how they are. A BPD's trail of destruction is one of collateral damage, a BPD couldn't organise a piss up in a brewery, much less scheme and plot the rise and downfall of their many...
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    Old post, but this is so on the money. Before my discard, I called her out on a clear manipulation, telling her I didn't play games and was disappointed to see she'd act in a way like this. She turned on the water works (in public), twisted it to make me look unreasonable. No matter what way I...
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    For anyone hurting from a sudden BPD discard....

    You're probably feeling intense anger, disbelief and bewilderment at how someone could have treated you this way. If you were particularly enamoured with this woman, you're probably searching for meaning right now. Well, let this song and its lyrics be your message to her. "Don't you try to...
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