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Makes sense. I am going to do it this weekend. Thank you.

I hit the gym 5 days and volunteer at homeless shelter over the weekend. Other than that I am also training for BJJ. This rountine helps me feel better but doesn't help find any potential dates. You mentioned that you started going to restaurants and coffee shops by yourself. I am sure it must...

Thank you for this. I saw some videos about limerance and turns out I suffer from it with every girl I come accross. I am going to try and fix it. As you said work needs to be done on my inner self and outer self. I often face trouble finding new women. Not sure where to look for. Maybe this is...

You are right that I do think that she is the missing piece. She helped me progress further in my career and I started to believe that she is "the one". I have worked hard in my career and right now I make decent money. It's not a lot but it is better than average income and I am working on...

I know I acted in typical nice guy and this is because I was never romatically interested in her before. But my biggest concern is how to get over her. I run into her almost everyday. I can't talk to more women as I am an introvert.

i wouldn't want any chaos or get the management involved at my workplace as I am still new here. It's too big of a risk.

A little background: I work in a law firm where the lawyer (the lady I fell for) really liked my work and wanted me to switch with her to the new law firm. At that time, I didn't have any such feelings for her and decided to move since the new job was way too lucrative to be passed on; good...

You are correct with the approach anxiety thing. I always had this issue and i actively worked on it until Covid and now i am kind of back to square one.

Its because our spices tend to have strong smell. But they taste good.

I am not looking for any pitty. The reason why i asked if french women are open to dating immigrants is because firstly i have heard French Canadians tend to be racist. Secondly, from what i have experienced while trying to approach white girls, they tend to shoot down immigrants almost...

Not sure if you really meant me writing a letter or if you were being sarcastic. Lol I can surely appraoch her and talk to her about stuff. Maybe you can clear my doubt; are french women open to dating immigrants?

Well, that gives me some hope. Lol

Dont you think introducing myself now, after more than three time of running into each other, would be a bit weird? Or am i just overthinking?

To answer your point about BO, i am fairly cautious and always wear a nice perfume to mask my odour. I know Indians can smell like curry. Lol Anyways, this was exactly my concern, being labelled as a creepy neighbour. Since its a small appartment building and i am more likely to run into her and...

Thats fine by me if she says no. Cause at least this way i would be sure. But i am curious as to why you would say that i already failed?

I am an immigrant (Indian) and i live in Quebec. I live in an appartment building and this girl i want to ask out lives in the downstair appartment with her dad. Its a small appartment building (Only three appartments). So, its been 4 months since i moved here and i have only seen this girl...

I would agree. Getting sex per se isnt hard. There are still some average looking women who are easy to bang. This is completely subjective opinion but i think if you are white male you have it much easier with immigrant females.

Yeah thats my biggest concern, becoming black pilled. I will take your suggestion and give it a try.

Well the underlying issue is that somewhere my brain is trying to protect myself from all the disappointments that come in with dating. Other than that i am just happy and content being alone now and concentrated on my career. Another issue i pointed earlier, and the reason why i posted here...

I would agree. My brain is trying to protect from the possible disappointments from failures. But i do feel happier without these possible disappointments.