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When you stop replying to ignoramus, ie… The people who replied in a degrading manner… That is what confidence is!

GG, You are obviously on a different playing field than most. I would like to say I agree totally with your original post. This forum has moved from being a forum for men, to being a forum with losers. The banal and utterly nonsensical responses from these people give me a sharp pain in my...

Very simple my man, detach yourself from this statement and develop your character to your liking. You are not who you think you are, you are not who others think you are, you are who you think others think you are. Louis.

John Juan is so right. Let her know you see the problem and explain to her that it is a problem. Getting abused is a problem… No if’s, and’, or buts’s, getting abused is a problem… Then back off. You can only give your take on the situation… The knight in shining armor is the wrong approach...

Spanky, I know how you feel I was actually in a very similar situation and all I can say is do not let your emotions run you over. Do not let her get back into your heart. Yes you care about her well-being but make it clear that is all you are interested in. Divorces are tricky situations...

It sounds as if a friendship is blossoming... Do you appear to be mysterious at all? Or does she enjoy your company and think you are nice. If that is the case, sorry, unless you would like a platonic friendship. Louis.

No sweat my man. Louis.

Yes I am retaliating like a feeble little girl. I had a long day too. Louis.

Oscar Wilde, you are correct in that my post is not organized very well. A paragraph develops an idea in a series of logically connected sentences. The thing about my post is that the topic sentence was not clearly stated and the development was a bit unorganized as a result. Thanks for your...

I blew up at my ignorant drunken uncle and realized a common problem that most people have. Why do we live? This is a meaning that most people fail to think about. We must live for, and/or to achieve and fulfill our own intrinsic motivation. Most people are not motivated or cannot vocalize...

Everybody has posted terrific advice... I feel where you are coming from but I hope for your sake you STOP blaming yourself. Now brush up your guitar skills or whatever you do for fun and remember, this is for the better! Hang in there and let your inner DJ shine; this situation is not your...

Buddy -- Loose the loser attitude For you own sake, activate your motivation. You are posting about how lonely and desperate you are... The truth is... YOU ARE!!! If you believe it, you are... If you see yourself as a true DJ, then you are one... The self-fulfilling prophecy my friend. Just...