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  1. xuzaki

    How are you guys managing restrictions?

    It's been nearly two years that some nonsense has restricted people across the globe. From what I can tell, it has to do with some sort of virus. I personally don't care about it. I want my freedom while living a good city. My job in the US went online... 8 hours of computer screen each day...
  2. xuzaki

    Women love opportunistically ; men love idealistically

    "Women love opportunistically ; men love idealistically". I see this all over the place. But don't both men and women love opportunistically? Here's where I'm coming from: - women are attracted to males with certain qualities (good genes, status, protection, providing, etc) and can ditch a...
  3. xuzaki

    Suddenly low sex drive (is it caused by COVID pandemic?)

    Has anyone else here had a sudden dip in sex drive? Apparently this can be a sign of serious health problems. But I'm wondering if it's just environment. I'm 30 and have always had a normal sex drive. Until this summer, I was living south of the equator, in a country with no COVID problem...
  4. xuzaki

    Military service

    It seems to me that guys from wealthy stable families aren't enlisting for the military, opting instead for white-collar jobs which are viewed as "better" options. I've been thinking about the military (Army or National Guard) because of the positive aspects, e.g. the mental hardening that...
  5. xuzaki

    Unprotected blowj0bs

    Blowj0bs aren't any fun with a condom and I'm wondering if I should just go for it. What are the risks of receiving a blowj0b without protection? Online searches suggest that: - no significant chance of HIV in this way - Gonorrhea/Chlamydia/Syphilis suck but are curable - HPV would be...
  6. xuzaki

    Good girls

    I try to show a "player" vibe and throw in some dirty teasing to filter out the innocent girls, but it doesn't always work. Met a girl in the park a few weeks ago. Met yesterday for first time since then, walked around, had her come back to my place (she thought it was "too soon"). Turned...
  7. xuzaki

    Strange followup to a bad date

    I did a daygame direct approach and the girl was very receptive. She always responded to my texts right away and enthusiastically. Tonight she travelled across the city to come to a bar near my place. She texted she’d be 5 minutes late and I wrote back “minus 5 points”, to which she just did...
  8. xuzaki

    Hurting a girl feels like a sh1t, even with abundance

    Like many guys here, I discovered the red pill after a traumatic break up where I learned "hypergamy doesn't care". I won't repeat my life story, but it's relevant to say that the terms Beta Game, Scarcity Mentality, and Oneitis all applied to my life up until then. I'm 28. I quickly went...
  9. xuzaki

    Paying on dates with girls you're already fvcking?

    In daygame, I've been inviting girls for a drink near my place. I buy us each one glass of wine, then pull back for sex. The next few dates, they just come over for sex. I'm starting to see one of these girls during the day, and I'm not sure how to handle paying for meals / tickets / etc. I...
  10. xuzaki

    Question on Plate Theory

    In Rollo Tomassi's "The Rational Male", he describes plate theory where you are with multiple women. Women's mating strategy is hypergamy, not polygamy like a guy. From my experience and as Rollo advises, I don't directly communicate that I'm seeing other girls, but every girl seems to...
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