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  1. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    Why shouldn't I just ask her at mini golf in person? She may just say let's go after golf on Friday? I usually come off better in person then over text.
  2. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    Why do you say that? How should I reverse? The group is taking a break in April and rejoining in May; so that will give things time to settle off. I do not chase, so it's not going to be an issue.
  3. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    Certainly possible, but I thought it was interesting that she said she wanted to get drinks again, if I was going to mini-gold and that she asked me if I was still going skydiving. I will continue what I am doing and not chase, but in my past experience, a woman with little interest doesn't do...
  4. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    She came to me, I didn't come to her. Heck, I went to the bathroom and when I came back, she was sitting at another bench. She did her set of volleys, and then sat back on my side. I am not approaching her again as she was unable to go this Saturday. Didn't ask about it, she asked if I was still...
  5. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    Strange tennis with her yesterday. She was very talkative, and I was smiling and laughing as well. She said she had an enjoyable time, but I did let it slip out, I wasn't sure since I didn't know. She said she said so, I do not recall. She said she meant to say so in the text, but was focusing...
  6. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    There was two girls I briefly dated that were DTF the first time, but they just were not my type. The really attractive girls around here, at least for me, are not DTF straight off. I had that twice on OLD, which they were at least 20 LBS heaver than their pics. If you can do that, more power to...
  7. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    I never chase, so that will not be an issue. I will be going tonight and Thursday, apparently, she's going to be at both too. It should be an interesting few games. I expect she'll avoid me, but I will smile and say hello, act like normal. We'll see, but I will not be chasing or asking her out...
  8. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    Just an update. This one is dead. She responded pretty quickly, but said she had plans next Saturday. I suggested for her to cancel, she said she can't but said maybe another time (unlike the first time when she gave an alternative date). Not a good response. Can't say I didn't try. Feel like a...
  9. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    I know my antics sound strange, and it's not like being or acting like an exciting puppy dog, but I see how it can come across like that. Sometimes my analytical mind goes into overdrive and I go through different versions in my head on how a situation can come out. I do this business too; which...
  10. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    Not sure what's doesn't make sense. I am a year or so out of my divorce and I am dating again. I've not dated for nearly 10 years. It was from 7:10 - around 9pm. I didn't go for her boobs, butt or vag, just the occasional brush against the hand, arm or leg; nothing risque. She didn't as for my...
  11. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    @RangerMIke, I was reviewing your post here (https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/top-5-signs-of-high-interest-and-low-interest.239492/), and a brief time towards the end she did cross her arms and legs. She was still looking and facing me, but her arms were crossed and her legs were crossed...
  12. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    I did respond about the axe throwing when she said cool, let's do it, interesting. When I meant try, I meant try as in I can approach again and see if she wants to do something. If I go to tennis next week, I was just going to say, hey I'm going indoor skydiving on Saturday around 7:30. You...
  13. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    I never tried to give any advice, so that wasn't an issue. Hard to tell. Usually, if a woman has a good time, they text you after.
  14. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    Not too sure Glassguy. I've had women stay around for a couple of hours or so and then just ghost. No, I didn't text to make sure she got home okay. I used to do that, but when a few of them didn't or gave me an attitude saying I'm not her keeper or she can take care of her self, thank you when...
  15. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    I do not think it went that well. She texted prior to the date looking forward to see you soon, so I thought that was a good sign. She came in and gave me a hug, and I bought a flight for us. She was very talkative and she seemed to have a good time, did some kino through the night. We were...
  16. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    I plan to escalate. It's a wine & spirits place, not sure how much can be done in public. Hopefully there's a booth we can get instead of standing at the bar section. Doubtful she'll want to f-ck on the first what this is. She has school the net day. We're both meeting at this place. She's...
  17. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    Surprised about the social media too. I talk about different things to different people. Still trying to figure it out. She only started playing tennis with us three weeks ago, so still fresh. It was easier after playing tennis as I was able to play off the other girls in the group. Tonight...
  18. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    That would suck. I'd hope not. She planned to eat dinner with the other girl at 6pm or and then meet up with me for drinks. The other girl doesn't drink. Not sure. Yea, she's talkative on a few things. She was telling me she's spent 12 hour days finalizing the term or something for her...
  19. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    Already started some kino yesterday. Any other tips? 43 to 27, big age difference. What to girls this age talk about? She's not on social media, which was surprising to me.
  20. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    I play tennis a couple times a week with a group of people. This one girl, 27, who was new to the group, wanted to go to a new wine & spirits place that just opened up. She looked at me and asked if I wanted to go with her. Since she's attractive, I said sure and then she asked my number and she...
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