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Even though I'm very upset about my ex I would find no contact bloody marvellous at the moment. But we have children together and she keeps sending me messages under the guise of children issues. The issues are generally non urgent or we've already agreed the principle, yet she keeps getting in...

There is a video kicking around YouTube answering this very question, I found it because I was worried I was BPD/Narc too. It turns out that if you need to ask the question, you probably have sufficient empathy and care that you don't have the disorder. This doesn't mean however that you can't...

How come you are paying her if you have joint custody if you don't mind me asking? As above it does sound like she thinks you are still hers (but without having to **** you) I definitely wouldn't have her calling you every night. Does she want you back?

Tell me about the lack of appreciation! But I think most women in general are like that as opposed to just BPDs.

This thread and various others is helping me get over the ex a lot I think. I now just think of her as an empty machine, incapable of any reciprocal authentic love or empathy. However I hate lying or misleading myself and wonder sometimes if its just an excuse to help me lessen the pain. Was she...

Practically the same as mine. The loyal thing confuses me. My therapist reckons some can use the relationship itself to fill a hole and not need to cheat. I remain open minded but healthily sceptical.

I blocked my bpd ex on Facebook. It's great. She doesn't even show up on likes on mutual frriends posts.

Yeah it's unfair that her female friends think I'm the abusive one. I argued back when she demeaned me in public and could be quite nasty in response to her - but, especially in the early days, she got me in a ****ty mood. She then went on to charm everyone and have a great time while I was...

Why do you think npd as well please?

I have myself split from a BPD recently. Despite being aware of this site and Rollos site for around three years I thought she was normal and tried to use 'normal' game to revive the relationship, e.g. dread etc. Until about a month after the split I didn't join the dots and now it seems...