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I'm starting a Gofundme page, and I'll post the link later. I'd appreciate any donations.....

Did you guys even listen to what I said? I have $20k in personal CC debt. I talked to a divorce attorney who said that they want a $10k retainer up front, and that I HAVE to get the CC bills paid off before I file. I don't need rash advice like "leave now", "you're a total beta", "grow a...

I've got several women on the side right now so I'm in no fog and I need no wakeup. It was painful over the last few years, but I'm not losing sleep over it anymore. She makes more than 2x as much as me so I'm not worried about paying child support. I'm also not worried about an STD aa I...

Very good post Killakittie, as I agree with what you're saying. I've detected a lack of genuine remorse all along, as I first caught her sexting while one of my parents was dying of cancer. We got in a huge fight, and she promised to never talk to him again. Nevertheless she continued to...

I told my wife exactly what she has to do to fix things. I've also told her that she has to accept me being completely in control from now on, and that's non-negotiable. She has said she's sorry numerous times, and she's never blamed it on me, but she's still defensive and she isn't crying or...

No need to throw insults at somebody going through an already difficult situation. Do you have a severely disabled child? Does your child have OCD, anxiety, and literally ask you thousands of repetitive questions starting at 6am everyday? I guess guys like you can just take a sh*t on your...

I got talked to guy she''s been having the affair with for the last 2.5 years on the phone, and he agreed to "bow out". He told me that she badmouthed me and he assumed we were getting a divorce, otherwise he wouldn't have had sex with her. She was angry that I talked to him, and she was still...

Thanks for the practical advice, as that's more useful then, "get a grip, get out now". I know the relationship is dead, but I need to be cautious and deliberate in order to be in the best position both financially and as far as my kids, who are very attached to me over her. I also have a...

I can't just bail out immediately and abandon the house and kids. I now feel like she's basically forcing me to file by saying she wants to stay married but then being apathetic at the same time. That was clear on the first page that everyone's opinion is that I should leave, but the problem...

So if I stay until I'm ready to leave, should I pretend everything is normal and be affectionate to her, or should I just ignore her and do my own thing? I've been distant from her the lady few days, and it's caused her to be even more apathetic than she was already. I thought it would make...

I picked out a female therapist years ago, and in one session my wife admitted to neglecting my needs, but she claimed she didn't know why. My wife eventually dropped out of counseling because she thought the therapist sided with me, and she refuses to see her again despite the fact that she...

I have an alpha career and alpha appearance, but I've definitely been way too nice to her, so I've been beta in that regard. Although I question neediness, as any guy would be needy if your wife didn't have sex with you for months at a time. As far as my kids, they're 8 and 3, and as I said...

No....the kids are both mine. One of them is actually from an egg donor because my wife couldn't concieve. I agree with counselors, as I read a lot and I'm very introspective, so I don't need to pay someone to tell me the obvious. I keep thinking about the fact that my wife did this to me...

I went to see a female divorce attorney that a friend recommended and she told me I have more than enough evidence already, that most people don't have as much evidence as I do, and that based on her experience my wife's behavior won't change so a divorce is a question of when rather than if. I...

Thanks for the good advice. I think her run on the carousel can't last much longer. She just joined a gym and is desperately working out by taking classes. She also hired a personal trainer despite the fact that I've done several bodybuilding contests and I'm in great shape. She gained...

I think part of the reason she cheated and neglected me was to get back at me in some way. I also think she "cheated down" with a less attractive guy in order to make herself feel more attractive. It was very deliberate and calculated, and she had plenty of opportunities to stop after I kept...

I know there many more women that have more to offer, as I've had attractive women tell me that my wife is absolutely crazy, as they'd be ripping my clothes off every night. My wife told me that she's jealous of me because I'm in shape, and that some of the stuff that she did was acting out...

You're right.....I'd probably tell a friend to get out. It's interesting to see almost everyone is saying the same, as I thought there'd be a few guys saying I could still recover the marraige. I suspect that it's much worse than I know about, as she's only admitted to things if I confront her...

I just wanted to see if there was anyone who saved their marriage after killing their beta and making some changes. There are other options aside from staying and putting up with her crap or leaving asap. I already moved to another room, and I could stay and just do my own thing until I'm...