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So you're saying just leave it as is?

Are you being for real or just sarcastic?

Alright, so what's done is done at this point. Think it's worth texting her now and asking her to join me for drinks tonight? Or is that looking needy at this point.

I've been doing a pretty good job weeding out the uninterested types, so I think I know where this is headed.... But I texted a girl telling her to let me know which days she's free in the coming days so that we can get a drink. She said "yes let's get a drink!" but didn't give me a day she's...

Nope, that was part of the problem. Every time I saw her was like I was starting over again due to the few week gap in between and I'm not experienced/talented enough yet to pull something like that off when this happens.

Bingo-player: Sounds just like my chick. Probably a 6 at best, but I have a feeling she thinks she's two points above that. And, like you, I thought she'd be hooked at the end of our first date, which also went a little longer than it probably should have (but that's because she kept...

Yeah, it seems like she wants to be chased. And some people say, well chase her then. But that would always mean she'd have the upper hand, I think, and look to monkey branch eventually.

Went out on a couple dates with a chick. From the start, getting her out was like pulling teeth. She'd literally take a day to respond to my texts (whether she was playing games or otherwise) and on the morning of our third date, canceled. She showed enough interest, including trying a...

I know man....it's just strange. When we try to come up with a date, I'll propose a day to her and she'll be like "I'm busy this whole week, but how about this day" and invariably it's a day I'm busy. So I drop it and hit her up the following week, etc. See, I've only been trying to match her...

I agree, that's what I should be doing and I'm planning on doing just that. I hope it's not a matter of me not trying hard enough, though, like my friend said it was.

The more I think about this.... did I mess up? maybe I should have changed my plans around and accomodated her when she offered me alternatives...then again, it was a same day cancellation on her part. I ran this through my admittedly AFC friend (who still gets more poon than me since chases...

Hmmmm, like what? "busy"? or "k" if she offers free days, but never elaborate?

Yeah, I don't get it. After each date, she immediately texted how much fun she had, etc. Or randomly text me to have a good weekend. Things I'd think a higher-interest girl would do. It's so weird because usually low interest girls will just leave it alone or say their busy and not try to...

Yeah I'd say I've done a pretty good job so far being non-needy consider my lack of options at the moment. But then I always feel like, when she texts 1-2 days later, well it wouldn't hurt to try since I'm not seeing anyone else. Now it's gotten to the point where I'm getting fed up though...

No I'm not. First date was a blind one as we were set up, second date ramped up the kino, but no sex yet. I was pretty much giving myself at most the third date...if I wasn't happening by then, I was gonna eject. But this 1-2 days thing is just odd to me because when she responds it's like "I...

So I've been on a couple dates with this chick. Had a pretty good time, she's decently cute. However, I think I have to next to her. See, the problem is, whenever I text her to meet up, she usually takes 1-2 days to reply. I usually try asking a few days in advanced, because I am an...

I told one of my friend about this and he was like "Dude, that's mean." I always thought he was an AFC, but he gets *****, so that's why I had some doubt. I always thought it was a good move, kind of makes it more fun and it's not something they always expect.

Does this work well? It seems like it would be a way to kind of turn the tables, especially if she's high value.

Moving to another city in a few weeks. Ran into a girl who likely had a thing for me recently and in the beginning of the conversation, she was like she always was, flirty and bubbly. Then as the conversation turned, I broke the news I was moving during the flow of the conversation and since...

Yeah, there are problems with me. I'm short, very average looking if that, and on the skinnier side. And race is an issue with a couple of these. But a lot of these women I meet through work (not necessarily coworkers, but "through work") and they seek me out. A lot of times they are the...