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I slept with two hotter women (though the BPD was still very beautiful) after the fact. Even attempted to date one for a few months. However, there is something to be said about brain as the predominate sexual center. The passion and (false) love spell they put you in (and perhaps their lack of...

LDRs and BPD go hand-in-hand. It is EXTREMELY common. Mine lasted 5 years that way. But it worked for me because I was in two bands, going to school, working, etc. Met mine in a music forum (she wasn't terribly far away in distance so I kept with it). They mirror quite well via electronic...

That sounds more like HPD.

Eh, that's weird. Mine was sex obsessed (as most BPD's are) and did almost anything a porn star would do but she never used it in an argument to berate me or anything. She just saw it as "love". They seem to like role playing a lot too (another way to escape from themselves, imo). I'm guessing...

Point taken and understood. I resumed NC after this one and only hoover attempt. As I mentioned, her brother contacted me saying that she broke her neck in a car accident. I talked to him for details, wondering if she was permanently out of commission, but he lives in a different country and...

Dude, the whole relationship just got more awkward and bizarre as time went on. I'm still suffering 6 months later and I've had a stable mind my entire life. I don't know if it's because she was getting worse with age plus the added stress of college (I read stress exacerbates it), but I think...

BPDs ending relationships This is absolutely right. They can't end a relationship and they will gleefully talk about your replacement if you happen to make contact with them again--and they get replacements INSTANTLY. I've found out that social status, looks, etc. does not matter for their...

I agree with your apprehensive approach to labeling people because it is so easy to do. That is why I wanted second opinions because I am quite a skeptic (and maybe a bit in denial). Given her childhood background, her genetic predisposition on her maternal side, and her actual behavior--it...

Yes. She has a very curvy body, knew how to do her makeup, wore very feminine clothes to accent her curves, etc. She would do anything sexually I wanted. She never used condoms but the pill instead. I have studied it and that's why I gave examples of each symptom to give it legitimacy. Even...

Does this sound like a cluster B? Hello all, I'm new here and I've been reading this thread for the past couple of days as I suspect my ex to be a Borderline. I read some people are skeptical about how many people could say that they have dated a cluster B, so I'll put the issues down. I...