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    Help answer this text pls.

    First date tonight/last night. She came over and we fooled around, watched some TV. Shortly after leaving she sent the standard thanks-for-a-great-night message. Two hours later she sends this: "OMG rude!!! You gave me hickies!!!" IDK. Maybe, "Oops...good thing you don't work this...
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    She wants to meet for coffee (first date) during the day.

    She tried to set up for coffee during the work day, i.e. texted me to see about meeting an hour later. I couldn't because I work for a living and plan my time off at least a few hours in advance. I have kind of a routine for dates and it doesn't involve me just dipping out of my office for an...
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    She's withholding sex in the AM. What to do?

    This morning and the last time she shut the pvssy off and wouldn't open her mouth either. She was playful when I pulled her back/wrestled around, but absolutely would not budge. We rocked it during the night like usual and no other variable has changed. Also she's not on her period. We've been...
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    The perils of POF/busted!

    Last night I went to a POFer's house. We're schmoozing in her living room when her housemate walks through the front door. "Starrie this is Kelly; Kelly, Starrie." I banged Kelly last month, having also pulled her off POF. What's more, Kelly is now visibly pregnant with her fiancee's (didn't...
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    Likes on Facebook?

    Is it appropriate to Like comments a girl leaves beneath your status, photos, etc.? Or is it too much orbiter stuff, like constantly chiming in and Liking everything she posts? ETA: We've actually been out in RL/not just poked around on Facebook. She left a flirty take off beneath my status...
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    Is this a test?

    She asked me to deliver food and sundries. She underwent a surgery yesterday. This morning she called and asked me—Pretty please? It would mean the world to me—if I'd pick up and deliver some things because she's stuck in the house/doesn't want to go out while her face is freshly swollen. She...
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    Fake suicides and AWs

    Early this morning my ex sent me a dark text. It was melodramatic BS basically limericking 'goodbye' and that she's going to pill herself out. It's par for the course for her. I normally go out of my way to barely give her the time of day when she contacts me, largely because she's literally the...
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    Girls say they would NEVER return to an ex who banged another during a break.

    Girlfriends have told me this. I'm inclined to disbelieve it, however, I've never had the opportunity to test it. They've either been back with me in short order, in which time I actually hadn't made any new fans, or they never returned period. Is this likely BS?
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    Erections during kino.

    I continue to get hardons about the same as when I was fifteen. I wake up with a railroad spike. I'll stretch my pants driving to work after heavy snow. So, when I'm down her pants at a theater it happens like clockwork. Ditto if she gets on my lap when we're sharing a restaurant booth or...
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    10 Minute Trainer. You dig?

    Has anyone tried Tony Horton's 10 Minute Trainer? Business has been such that I haven't been into the gym in nearly a month and I just don't do late night workouts, so a ten minute thing a few times a day is attractive to me. Has anyone found this "stacking" concept to be effective?
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    Is it ok to trash her boyfriend/husband?

    My friend is probably heading towards divorce (cheating first, likely). Her husband is a douche. I don't think I'm interested in a proper relationship because, for one thing, I don't like that she denigrates her man to another guy, but I am interested in sex. She asks my opinion. Should I be...
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    How to handle "I thought you were different" game.

    We've gone out a few times in the last three weeks. Had dinner at her place once, kinda-sorta made out, her kid called crying about problems, no sex. We saw a movie since then. Last week I told her let's get together and she declined, so I left it in her court and dropped it. Today she texted...
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    How to tell if she's playing or just conflicted.

    How to tell if she's playing. Update: How to un-chump I'm in trouble and really appreciate your insight. Here's the facts: We've been coworkers-then-friends for about three months, and started seeing each other outside the office just more than a month ago. I'm 25. She's 32. 1) We get...
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