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    I'm too jokey. I want to be SMOOTH.

    17 here. Cold approaching girls led me onto a positive spiral of confidence. I lost 20kg, have been working out for a year, have good fashion sense, I've actually been invited to parties (!!!), and I've still kept up my grades. Trying to become a 'don juan' has been the most significant event...
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    How do I stop being a performer?

    17 here. I used to be completely socially autistic. Now after a physical and mental transformation I've feel I've gone to the other extreme and become a performer. So I've gotten great at being the centre of attention. It's great for meeting new people because you're instantly likeable, and...
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    How can I kino in highschool?

    How can I escalate physically in an environment where you have to be very subtle since the interactions go over the long-term? I do a lot of stuff like brushing shoulders, touching their forearms/arms/hands frequently but the last two times I tried to put my arm around their shoulder they...
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    Rejected - what did I do wrong?

    17 here. Just did a week-long course where I stayed with 30 other students at a university. We had a lot of free time to go into town and relax so naturally I got to know everyone and tried to hit on the hottest girl. I seemed to get pretty well with the girl, she was super comfortable with...
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    How to gain social ranking?

    So I met new people and started talking to them. I thought I had figured out who had the highest 'social ranking' - the girl was fairly pretty, smart and seemed to get attention even though she acted like an absolute prat. Afterwards, when she left this was completely overturned when everyone...
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    How to react to failure?

    How do you guys react to failure? I was in an environment where I was sitting next to a girl who had a boyfriend, no problem, because she was only 6-7/10. There were two girls behind me however, 8 and 9-9.5/10. Tried to get the number of the 9.5 only to find out both were going to meet their...
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    Long-term social ease

    Hi, I'm aged 16 and I started daygame mid summer of this year, probably approached 21-24 girls/groups by now. I started off as a shy kid with no confidence, charisma or ability to talk to girls and I've seen amazing results, and even three successes (at getting a number - one developed to...
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