"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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  1. self_is_an_illusion

    There is scarcity in Every Aspect of dating – A call to action for Men in Pickup

    This article perpetuates a toxic, transactional view of relationships, framing women as scarce commodities to be acquired rather than equal partners to be respected. By promoting a scarcity mindset, it encourages men to view dating as a competitive arena, fostering anxiety and desperation rather...
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    Did Daygame Kill Johnny Berba and Tom Torero?

    https://mindful-masculinity.org/2025/04/13/did-daygame-really-kill-tom-torero-and-johnny-berba/ Recent discussion video between Pat and Paul Janka came up on my feed- this blog post is not meant to be actively “having a go” at them its just to discuss the topic surrounding the deaths between...
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    There is scarcity in Every Aspect of dating – A call to action for Men in Pickup

    I’ve met my girlfriend from cold approach and know many who have. For men living in the west it’s a really important tool for improving social skills and improving options , the competition on apps In London for example is simply too steep. The first woman I got laid with from cold approach had...
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    There is scarcity in Every Aspect of dating – A call to action for Men in Pickup

    Non-bar approaching (also called daygame) is a very tough path. It is horribly inefficient. The majority of women between ages 18-49 aren't seeking new penis at the moment they are approached in a non-bar setting. Most women in the grocery store or bookstore will not be open to chatting...
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    There is scarcity in Every Aspect of dating – A call to action for Men in Pickup

    https://mindful-masculinity.org/2025/03/03/there-is-scarcity-in-every-aspect-of-dating-a-call-to-action-for-men-in-pickup/ When characterising the “abundance mindset” in dating I began to think overtime that this theory was largely false and didn’t really live up to the longterm acid test. The...
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    Observations about college sex life from someone that went to a party school.

    Yeah I'm in College, and as for social ostracization, things have changed I guess, mind you my college is famous for being left leaning in my country. It is VERY left leaning, there is communist propaganda everywhere although i do not consider myself "right wing" anyone can see that the shid on...
  7. SW15

    Observations about college sex life from someone that went to a party school.

    @Drmuscular - Are you currently a college student? You are 20 and that is the age of a typical current college student. Social ostracization depends on the college. I didn't see it much at my college in undergrad (2001-2005). Most college students do form monogamous, committed relationships...
  8. SW15

    Help me understand this girl's BS

    ...status of the current job market isn't being talked about enough on this forum. Men's income/employment status is a part of their sexual market value. The majority of the job losses have been in white collar work. White collar workers have been dealing with a subpar job market since 2023...
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    Help me understand this girl's BS

    Saves you time. Time is your most valuable thing. When you flake on her you will get a better feel for her actual interest level/attraction level. Some of your interactions have been opportunistic right? Y'all were at the same place at the same time randomly. That's a woman whose judgement...
  10. Manure Spherian

    I'm 40, I want kids

    Perhaps you didn't. I should have been more thorough in my reply to you. I once thought that having dignity in hard work and paying for oneself was to be upheld. However, others are not playing that game, and have as many children as they please, all while being shameless using welfare to...
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    The Fastest way to get laid with a lot of hot women within 1-2 years.

    The case of that fitness class instructor (it was a cardio based class) is one that I found fascinating. This was a standalone studio where I bought a short term class package and intended to leave once I used up all the classes. This happened in my 2nd to last class in the package. The...
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    Courtney Ryan made a video about inexperienced men

    I also want to add, which bears repeating, this sort of unregulated market has it so that females are getting experience way earlier than the average young male. Feral women do not like womanless men. This creates a catch-22. I'm unsure if I would even advise a high school guy to screw...
  13. Manure Spherian

    Courtney Ryan made a video about inexperienced men

    I use the term Xennial because I grew up in the midst of Gen X culture, but also experienced the digital age in my late teens and early 20's while older Gen Xers did not. I also absorbed the subcultures of the Gen X era but was too young to participate because I am a late Gen Xer/Xennial...
  14. Manure Spherian

    Courtney Ryan made a video about inexperienced men

    Well, to be fair, they didn’t grow up in the sort of unruly sexual environment their Gen X kids did, in which some of the most deviant and vicious young males ruled ruled the market. Many also weren’t aware that their 12 and 13 year old daughters were little wh0res for 20-plus year old men or...
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    Tired Of Not Having Any Beautiful women In My Life (besides my mom and sister)

    There is value in an early start. I had some issues with this. My 2 main issues were: 1. Multiple childhood relocations, weaking my social standing 2. Height. With height, I was not noticeably taller than females until late in my sophomore year of high school, when I was reaching the...
  16. Manure Spherian

    Tired Of Not Having Any Beautiful women In My Life (besides my mom and sister)

    All true. This is why I recommend men get socially adjusted early! While I don’t think thirteen-year olds should have sex, I’m talking that early for socialization with the opposite sex these days. Being we aren’t living pre-sexual revolution, those who win in the sexual market, win early, and...
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    Beginner cold approaching

    Wow... Your advice is simple and nice. But I think it's going to require what Roosh V. calls high pre-minute attraction. I already go to the gym so I will give what you're saying a try and see the results. I'm currently starting out with Mystery Method and it requires you to create...
  18. We_ArE_VeNOM

    Beginner cold approaching

    ...depends on the delivery. You wanted her to vibe with you? Creating convo isn't necessary, amigo. Hit the gym, increase your sexual market value. Approach at least 2 women per day. Approach, keeping the chatter to a minimum during the encounter. Try not to focus too much on body...
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    Ways to Increase Actual and Perceived Value

    ...a made up, clichéd and overused concept by dating coaches and guys who are trying to get better with women. Same applies to SMV (sexual market value), it does not exist either, except for in the minds of guys on the internet. No normal person keeps going on about 'value' or SMV. You...
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    Prom 2025

    Actually I’m not USA - I’m from Poland. And not planning to go to uni and waste my life. Already making money online from my business. So you saying to not focus now on serious relationship?
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