I'd say your current understanding is simply based on a lack altitude and awareness. That will change. 
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Lack of awareness... Maybe, I am a bit disconnected from the mindset of rational people. However, understanding? Despite not being the most educated person (I am almost entirely self-taught) I have read a half dozen texts on evolutionary biology and I have come to the conclusion that biology is a driving force for human behavior.
Asmodeus
There is no mysticism, not magic in love. There cannot be... Your mind thinks it is because of the surge of serotonin in your fronto-limbic system. A release of sex hormones (testosterone and estrogen) from your gonads. Oxytocin in your hypothalamus. And doamine in your nucleus accumbens.