"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Swallowing the Hard Truth: Most Women Want the Top 10–20% of Men

SickSadWorld

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I can assure you it is about that.
How would you explain then how I have been able to **** hot babes 9s and 10s without being a hot model? And I have no much money. I am 170 cm so not tall at all

how can you explain the millions of those model tyoe good looking faces, tall or whatever who
are married or are with 6s 7s and 8s???

nah ! I don’t buy it. Go with your theory somewhere else
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cheeky_James

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How would you explain then how I have been able to **** hot babes 9s and 10s without being a hot model? And I have no much money. I am 170 cm so not tall at all

how can you explain the millions of those model tyoe good looking faces, tall or whatever who
are married or are with 6s 7s and 8s???

nah ! I don’t buy it. Go with your theory somewhere else
the onus would you on you buddy to PROVE your wild claims. Not us to DISPROVE your BS.
Btw where the f did you come from.
New user pops up out of nowhere with more wild claims of average looking dudes pulling models.

It’s the same old story on forums.

re your second stupid bit.
Money & Status mate. As always.
 

MatureDJ

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The older I get the easier this dating game is and the more options I have. I attribute a lot of that to the work I've put in as well as my competition bringing little to the table.
The dating game gets easier as men age because older women's sexual market value is so low. :rolleyes:
 
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Its not that hard to break into the top 25% in America and the UK in regard to looks. like I've said; if your healthy weight (BMI) somewhat slim/fit and have an average face and dress OK, you get into 25% by default (as long as your not very short as a man). So, yes, most people want a 20% person (give or take), but it really isn't a high bar. A "5" makes top 25% in America and the UK as I've been saying for donkey's years. Just look around you..... only 1 in 4 adults is healthy weight with an average face. Most people are fat/out of shape, have crappy diets, don't exercise much and dress poorly, so are automatic sub 4's.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Its not that hard to break into the top 25% in America and the UK in regard to looks. like I've said; if your healthy weight (BMI) somewhat slim/fit and have an average face and dress OK, you get into 25% by default (as long as your not very short as a man). So, yes, most people want a 20% person (give or take), but it really isn't a high bar. A "5" makes top 25% in America and the UK as I've been saying for donkey's years. Just look around you..... only 1 in 4 adults is healthy weight with an average face. Most people are fat/out of shape, have crappy diets, don't exercise much and dress poorly, so are automatic sub 4's.
I think location matters a lot too, people think I'm trolling when I tell men to move to Iowa or Wisconsin if they struggle where they at for example, in Iowa It's easier to be in the top 10% guy then in LA. If you're jacked In Iowa making 50K a year in Des Moines you're a top 10% guy in LA not so much and Iowa has some hot country girls(espeically if you live around IOWA state, the bars are always packed on weekends with hotties) if you're into that, if you want variety than yeah LA is miles ahead obviosuly but than you gotta bring
 
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