You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How would you explain then how I have been able to **** hot babes 9s and 10s without being a hot model? And I have no much money. I am 170 cm so not tall at all
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yescan you assure me too?
And obvs me link me to all the evidence please cheers thanks CJ
the onus would you on you buddy to PROVE your wild claims. Not us to DISPROVE your BS.
The dating game gets easier as men age because older women's sexual market value is so low.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I think location matters a lot too, people think I'm trolling when I tell men to move to Iowa or Wisconsin if they struggle where they at for example, in Iowa It's easier to be in the top 10% guy then in LA. If you're jacked In Iowa making 50K a year in Des Moines you're a top 10% guy in LA not so much and Iowa has some hot country girls(espeically if you live around IOWA state, the bars are always packed on weekends with hotties) if you're into that, if you want variety than yeah LA is miles ahead obviosuly but than you gotta bring