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I'm sure I read that you said in another post you've spent something like 1-2K taking these out on dates ?
thats without the time spent talking about stuff you couldn't give a sh1t about lol
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Hypergamy stuffs…
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thats without the time spent talking about stuff you couldn't give a sh1t about lol
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It's long game strategy bro and I've only got back in to looking recently.
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yep. We’ll make sure and ask around other dudes IRL and see if there’s any evidence this is a viable strategy would be my advice.
And be mindful that there’s a lot of stuff women perceive as pvssy begging. seriously.
Including Day game cold approaching under any cover of “I just had to come over and tell you you’re cute “ and also “ I want to try connect with you over xyz. “ connect with commonalities first etc.
women see this as an obvious, weak play.
The guy with the bowl out , asking “please miss , can I have some pvss?”
my 2c.
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Well well well..
guess who forgot about the Hinge Police…
better wipe all that egg from my face now .lol.
guess who forgot about the Hinge Police…
better wipe all that egg from my face now .lol.
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All that hard work… and pvssy connections ..gone!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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what did you do lol
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methinks my latest round of voice memos had slightly too sleazy tonality,
Some receiver did not have a GSOH.
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@BPH , @Clockwerk50 , @BackInTheGame78 , @Bigpapa @Gamisch and others who may have chipped in with tips on app texting.
cheers guys for the advice.
I’ve fully switched over to a more compact , faster and most importantly action-oriented and assertive approach on chats since and it’s working much better
so thanks to all y’all.
I have 2 more dates this week that went down short and sweet. I’ll post up the chats shortly,
I’ll probably develop a simple 3 step script now to just use on every match.
edit;
oh and I appealed the Hinge removal/ban I got .. and got reinstated !
It looks from their email that I’ll lose my connections on the profile reboot unfortunately. But it is what it is. Haven’t reinstalled yet , m over to FEELD since then.
cheers guys for the advice.
I’ve fully switched over to a more compact , faster and most importantly action-oriented and assertive approach on chats since and it’s working much better
so thanks to all y’all.
I have 2 more dates this week that went down short and sweet. I’ll post up the chats shortly,
I’ll probably develop a simple 3 step script now to just use on every match.
edit;
oh and I appealed the Hinge removal/ban I got .. and got reinstated !
It looks from their email that I’ll lose my connections on the profile reboot unfortunately. But it is what it is. Haven’t reinstalled yet , m over to FEELD since then.