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I'm sure I read that you said in another post you've spent something like 1-2K taking these out on dates ?
thats without the time spent talking about stuff you couldn't give a sh1t about lol
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hypergamy stuffs…
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thats without the time spent talking about stuff you couldn't give a sh1t about lol
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
It's long game strategy bro and I've only got back in to looking recently.
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yep. We’ll make sure and ask around other dudes IRL and see if there’s any evidence this is a viable strategy would be my advice.
And be mindful that there’s a lot of stuff women perceive as pvssy begging. seriously.
Including Day game cold approaching under any cover of “I just had to come over and tell you you’re cute “ and also “ I want to try connect with you over xyz. “ connect with commonalities first etc.
women see this as an obvious, weak play.
The guy with the bowl out , asking “please miss , can I have some pvss?”
my 2c.
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Well well well..
guess who forgot about the Hinge Police…
better wipe all that egg from my face now .lol.
guess who forgot about the Hinge Police…
better wipe all that egg from my face now .lol.
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All that hard work… and pvssy connections ..gone!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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what did you do lol
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methinks my latest round of voice memos had slightly too sleazy tonality,
Some receiver did not have a GSOH.
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@BPH , @Clockwerk50 , @BackInTheGame78 , @Bigpapa @Gamisch and others who may have chipped in with tips on app texting.
cheers guys for the advice.
I’ve fully switched over to a more compact , faster and most importantly action-oriented and assertive approach on chats since and it’s working much better
so thanks to all y’all.
I have 2 more dates this week that went down short and sweet. I’ll post up the chats shortly,
I’ll probably develop a simple 3 step script now to just use on every match.
edit;
oh and I appealed the Hinge removal/ban I got .. and got reinstated !
It looks from their email that I’ll lose my connections on the profile reboot unfortunately. But it is what it is. Haven’t reinstalled yet , m over to FEELD since then.
cheers guys for the advice.
I’ve fully switched over to a more compact , faster and most importantly action-oriented and assertive approach on chats since and it’s working much better
so thanks to all y’all.
I have 2 more dates this week that went down short and sweet. I’ll post up the chats shortly,
I’ll probably develop a simple 3 step script now to just use on every match.
edit;
oh and I appealed the Hinge removal/ban I got .. and got reinstated !
It looks from their email that I’ll lose my connections on the profile reboot unfortunately. But it is what it is. Haven’t reinstalled yet , m over to FEELD since then.