Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hypergamy stuffs…

Bingo-Player

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lol. No I get these ch1cks for FREE baby.
(When I do)
And have had a few quite decent /sexy ones too.
I'm sure I read that you said in another post you've spent something like 1-2K taking these out on dates ?

thats without the time spent talking about stuff you couldn't give a sh1t about lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yeah dude…
But how many are you actually pulling?
Or have pulled in the past w this strategy?
Otherwise this is just theorising and wishful thinking.
Just sayin.

also in addition - had you spoken to other guys who pull from the gym circle strategy?

like. Is there good evidence it’s actually a thing..
It's long game strategy bro and I've only got back in to looking recently.
 

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It's long game strategy bro and I've only got back in to looking recently.
yep. We’ll make sure and ask around other dudes IRL and see if there’s any evidence this is a viable strategy would be my advice.

And be mindful that there’s a lot of stuff women perceive as pvssy begging. seriously.

Including Day game cold approaching under any cover of “I just had to come over and tell you you’re cute “ and also “ I want to try connect with you over xyz. “ connect with commonalities first etc.

women see this as an obvious, weak play.
The guy with the bowl out , asking “please miss , can I have some pvss?”

my 2c.
 

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Well well well..

guess who forgot about the Hinge Police…
better wipe all that egg from my face now .lol. IMG_1214.png
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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@BPH , @Clockwerk50 , @BackInTheGame78 , @Bigpapa @Gamisch and others who may have chipped in with tips on app texting.

cheers guys for the advice.
I’ve fully switched over to a more compact , faster and most importantly action-oriented and assertive approach on chats since and it’s working much better

so thanks to all y’all.

I have 2 more dates this week that went down short and sweet. I’ll post up the chats shortly,

:cool::up::up::up:

I’ll probably develop a simple 3 step script now to just use on every match.

edit;
oh and I appealed the Hinge removal/ban I got .. and got reinstated !
It looks from their email that I’ll lose my connections on the profile reboot unfortunately. But it is what it is. Haven’t reinstalled yet , m over to FEELD since then.
 
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