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I'm sure I read that you said in another post you've spent something like 1-2K taking these out on dates ?
thats without the time spent talking about stuff you couldn't give a sh1t about lol
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hypergamy stuffs…
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thats without the time spent talking about stuff you couldn't give a sh1t about lol
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It's long game strategy bro and I've only got back in to looking recently.
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yep. We’ll make sure and ask around other dudes IRL and see if there’s any evidence this is a viable strategy would be my advice.
And be mindful that there’s a lot of stuff women perceive as pvssy begging. seriously.
Including Day game cold approaching under any cover of “I just had to come over and tell you you’re cute “ and also “ I want to try connect with you over xyz. “ connect with commonalities first etc.
women see this as an obvious, weak play.
The guy with the bowl out , asking “please miss , can I have some pvss?”
my 2c.
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Well well well..
guess who forgot about the Hinge Police…
better wipe all that egg from my face now .lol.
guess who forgot about the Hinge Police…
better wipe all that egg from my face now .lol.
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All that hard work… and pvssy connections ..gone!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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what did you do lol
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methinks my latest round of voice memos had slightly too sleazy tonality,
Some receiver did not have a GSOH.
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@BPH , @Clockwerk50 , @BackInTheGame78 , @Bigpapa @Gamisch and others who may have chipped in with tips on app texting.
cheers guys for the advice.
I’ve fully switched over to a more compact , faster and most importantly action-oriented and assertive approach on chats since and it’s working much better
so thanks to all y’all.
I have 2 more dates this week that went down short and sweet. I’ll post up the chats shortly,
I’ll probably develop a simple 3 step script now to just use on every match.
edit;
oh and I appealed the Hinge removal/ban I got .. and got reinstated !
It looks from their email that I’ll lose my connections on the profile reboot unfortunately. But it is what it is. Haven’t reinstalled yet , m over to FEELD since then.
cheers guys for the advice.
I’ve fully switched over to a more compact , faster and most importantly action-oriented and assertive approach on chats since and it’s working much better
so thanks to all y’all.
I have 2 more dates this week that went down short and sweet. I’ll post up the chats shortly,
I’ll probably develop a simple 3 step script now to just use on every match.
edit;
oh and I appealed the Hinge removal/ban I got .. and got reinstated !
It looks from their email that I’ll lose my connections on the profile reboot unfortunately. But it is what it is. Haven’t reinstalled yet , m over to FEELD since then.