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I'm sure I read that you said in another post you've spent something like 1-2K taking these out on dates ?
thats without the time spent talking about stuff you couldn't give a sh1t about lol
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Hypergamy stuffs…
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thats without the time spent talking about stuff you couldn't give a sh1t about lol
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's long game strategy bro and I've only got back in to looking recently.
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yep. We’ll make sure and ask around other dudes IRL and see if there’s any evidence this is a viable strategy would be my advice.
And be mindful that there’s a lot of stuff women perceive as pvssy begging. seriously.
Including Day game cold approaching under any cover of “I just had to come over and tell you you’re cute “ and also “ I want to try connect with you over xyz. “ connect with commonalities first etc.
women see this as an obvious, weak play.
The guy with the bowl out , asking “please miss , can I have some pvss?”
my 2c.
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Well well well..
guess who forgot about the Hinge Police…
better wipe all that egg from my face now .lol.
guess who forgot about the Hinge Police…
better wipe all that egg from my face now .lol.
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All that hard work… and pvssy connections ..gone!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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what did you do lol
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methinks my latest round of voice memos had slightly too sleazy tonality,
Some receiver did not have a GSOH.
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@BPH , @Clockwerk50 , @BackInTheGame78 , @Bigpapa @Gamisch and others who may have chipped in with tips on app texting.
cheers guys for the advice.
I’ve fully switched over to a more compact , faster and most importantly action-oriented and assertive approach on chats since and it’s working much better
so thanks to all y’all.
I have 2 more dates this week that went down short and sweet. I’ll post up the chats shortly,
I’ll probably develop a simple 3 step script now to just use on every match.
edit;
oh and I appealed the Hinge removal/ban I got .. and got reinstated !
It looks from their email that I’ll lose my connections on the profile reboot unfortunately. But it is what it is. Haven’t reinstalled yet , m over to FEELD since then.
cheers guys for the advice.
I’ve fully switched over to a more compact , faster and most importantly action-oriented and assertive approach on chats since and it’s working much better
so thanks to all y’all.
I have 2 more dates this week that went down short and sweet. I’ll post up the chats shortly,
I’ll probably develop a simple 3 step script now to just use on every match.
edit;
oh and I appealed the Hinge removal/ban I got .. and got reinstated !
It looks from their email that I’ll lose my connections on the profile reboot unfortunately. But it is what it is. Haven’t reinstalled yet , m over to FEELD since then.