"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yes, but avoid the temptation to wear shirts that are too tight to show off your muscles. Unless you're aiming to look like an Armenian used car salesman.
Lol, totally agree but it's so subjective. I like casual tailored shirts with sleeves rolled up slightly, well-fitted chinos, loafers or sneakers (for example)..

Or a well-fitted polo shirt not too tight for reason @Bokanovsky posted. It also looks too forced, like he's trying too hard and a bit 'gayish'. Lol. Jmo. Some women may like that look though.

But again so subjective, to each his own and the women attracted him and his look.

Below style. :love:
 

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There is a lot you can do with button down shirts and chinos.

To dress it up, you can add a blazer.

Or could skip the blazer and add a tie and slacks for more formal.
Just one caveat on chinos. Cotton or mostly cotton chinos are prone to shrinkage when you dry or even dry clean them :oops:. DAMHIK lol.

Maybe try ones that have some polyester in the mix.
 
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