"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fashion for the 40s DJ

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yes, but avoid the temptation to wear shirts that are too tight to show off your muscles. Unless you're aiming to look like an Armenian used car salesman.
Lol, totally agree but it's so subjective. I like casual tailored shirts with sleeves rolled up slightly, well-fitted chinos, loafers or sneakers (for example)..

Or a well-fitted polo shirt not too tight for reason @Bokanovsky posted. It also looks too forced, like he's trying too hard and a bit 'gayish'. Lol. Jmo. Some women may like that look though.

But again so subjective, to each his own and the women attracted him and his look.

Below style. :love:
 

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There is a lot you can do with button down shirts and chinos.

To dress it up, you can add a blazer.

Or could skip the blazer and add a tie and slacks for more formal.
Just one caveat on chinos. Cotton or mostly cotton chinos are prone to shrinkage when you dry or even dry clean them :oops:. DAMHIK lol.

Maybe try ones that have some polyester in the mix.
 
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