SpartanWarrior77
Master Don Juan
How do u know?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BRUTAL rejection: "we're not a match for a romance ... you're very safe to be around, confident, intelligent, funny, sweet, attractive ...
- Thread starter MatureDJ
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Gamisch
Master Don Juan
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Some dude went viral because he was ghosted by a woman.Her goals: get fvcked hard by a guy who doesn't act so "nice and harmless" all the time.
His goals: "Be the good boy his mommy taught him to be around women".
He ( 6/10 nerdy black dude) said she was a " 10/10" ( already a losing way of thinking)and he approached her "like it was a movie . "
They went on a date and then he told her he " had plans set up for the next date. " I told her this is what we gonna do the next date, we gonna do pottery baking together ". Dude clearly followed the redpill " active date " playbook.
So they went and afterwards he was ghosted. Unbelievable. It shows that a woman can definitely appreciate a bold approach, but that energy diminished the more he spoke.
Dude forgot that the type of men she will feck her is the type who isn't impressed by her all that much If a woman likes you there's no need to be " creative " on the second date and do minigolf, pottery, painting ,bungee jumping ect. It communicates you need a wife yesterday and you rarely meet women like her.
Dudes wanna do wife /husband shyte ont he second date and then wonder why they get ghosted...