Do you mean you'll keep pushing her, or that you'll ignore her because you're moving on?
The older I get, the more I'm just my authentic self. I don't have time to jester. I use to do my most just in hope for some boxc
This has been my attitude since early adolescence.
@Gamisch Great analysis as always, friend!
But your perspective doesn't match mine.
She falls in love with another man? So be it.
I won't do 2x because I have to be better than him.
I'm here, I don't compete with men.
If she finds a "better" man at some point, that's fine.
It's my job to truly remain who I am and not chase her.
If women behave that way, it's because they want to see how you react to the fact that she's found a better one.
So if you put in the effort, it could go well or badly.
If you don't put in the effort, it could go well or badly.
The outcome is pure luck, so don't put in the effort, but continue to be who you are, as
@Solomon says (You put in the effort in your life, not in her effort).
Find women who are more rational-minded and less emotional-minded. @BeExcellent is a very rational-minded female, and they are quite rare.
You speak truth, my female cousin is something like that, and I actually love talking to her, and her talking to me.
A toxic woman will never win with you in the end. Although your solid foundation is highly attractive to her in the beginning because it provides stability she doesn't have, it's your rational mind that doesn't facilitate the drama she craves.
Yes, it's like she's on fire, but as soon as she puts fire on my "floor," I have plenty of water to shut that off.
While I know there are men they stay with precisely because they manage to fuel that fire.
And it fuels their drama.
My sister is a very toxic woman, and we don't get along. She always tells me I'm too "independent" or that I "try too hard" in life.
Yet she also tells me she admires my "diligence" with the gym, at work, or with the things I set out to tackle.
