Female Attraction 101

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Women will determine your value to them within a 5-minute screen. The worst part is that you have to go through multiple screens, depending on your approach method.

Before the crybabies start crying, you guys literally do the same **** with everything else. If something doesn't capture your attention within five minutes, you're probably not going to like it.

Your goal is to be akin to a John Wick film. You know it's an action movie going in, but by the end, you realize you just watched a masterpiece, not just another action movie.

1st Screen – OLD Swipe

She sees your profile and reviews it for five seconds, max. What matters are your pictures and whatever mood she is in.

2nd Screen – The Approach / OLD Opening Conversation

You make your approach in person or send your first five messages on OLD. She will evaluate your looks and your frame. If she likes what she sees, you'll get a first date. If she's on the fence, you might get flaked on. If she doesn't like you, then you aren't getting ****.

Nothing else really matters after this point. Your only objective is to not burn the house down.

3rd Screen – The First Date

A woman already has a version of you envisioned in her head, and your goal is to meet or exceed that version. You have the first 5–10 minutes of the date to pass this screen.

This is where most men **** up because they act completely different than they did during the first encounter or the pre-date conversations.

The goal is to exceed expectations because if you only meet them, you might get a second date.

This is why I tell men to only choose date settings where they feel like their most genuine selves, or to reschedule if they aren't in the mood. Women can be cutthroat about first dates.

If you fail the first date, you'll get ghosted or hit with the "there was no spark" response.

I'll also say this: sometimes her standards just aren't passable, and you'll get rejected even if you did everything right.

What can you do about it? Move the **** on!

Last Screen

If a woman is going on a second date with you, that's your green light to escalate sexually as much as is appropriate and mutually welcomed.

**** the IOIs and the manosphere PUA ****. If the chemistry is there, the date should ideally end somewhere private, either your place or hers.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Good post. Still got some remarks.

First off all this is why I HIGHLY recommend/prefer meeting women in real life over OLD. Same rule applies: she determined you qualify looks and energy wise, and then she will screen you a couple of more times. Once she's ready, its a done deal tho...and with way more longevity than meeting perhaps the same woman via OLD.

Secondly, I believe that same night sex has a high chance of happening. Let's say that at very least sparks need to be flying the first date.

To adress the first paragraph about the disadvantages of OLD; I do 100% agree that its extremely important time be aware of WHAT kinda image you express. Most guys will literally "vibe" themselves out of some p00sy by being " themselves ".
 
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