“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alright, so if you've just finished reading LR - 110, this actually piggybacks right off of that...

Here's the imgur of the conversation with this girl: HERE

The conversation with this girl took place over a much longer timeframe than the one I just described, but the event itself requires much less description, so I should be able to fit this all into a single post...

After matching with this girl and getting her phone number, I started texting her, and after exchanging Instagrams, she sees that I work out a lot...and likes a bunch of my stories. She ends up asking me if I'd be her personal trainer, to which I respond, "Maybe if you ask nicely". To which she responds, "Do I have to get on my knees and beg?"

Now...I thought about how I wanted to reply to this for a while, because I wasn't sure whether she was dropping an innuendo. If she was, great. But if not, I might end up coming across too strongly. So I went with this:

"Do you like being on your knees?"
"Maybe I do"

And the conversation became MUCH more sexual going forward. However, the new problem was that she decided that somebody as attractive as me, being single at this age, there must be a red flag - and she was absolutely committed to finding it.

One night, she's texting me about wanting me to come over, but that she doesn't want to just be a one-night stand, to which I replied, "Me neither, I prefer many nights". Maybe that was bad, I don't know, because eventually it all worked out, but that response had her decide "Oh, there's the red flag...you're just a hookup".

Over the course of the 2 weeks leading up to our meeting, she would regularly thirst over my Instagram stories, and was very responsive, and ended up inviting me over multiple times. None of those invites ever came to fruition because she would talk herself out of it, via text, to me, stating that I was just a hookup and she was looking for more than a one-night stand. As a matter of fact, on 3 separate nights, she invited me over...but each time she had started drinking early, and would end up home early, asleep.

I got tired of this pattern, so the morning after, I hooked up with the LR - 110 girl, remember, I was supposed to see this one instead, but she fell asleep before 10 PM. She apologized, once again, and then transitioned to some other unrelated topic about me (in this case, a mutual Facebook friend). I was a little petty and responded something along the lines of "It's cool, I ended up going out and meeting someone else. I'm just leaving hers now".

This pissed her off...but she kept responding, didn't block me, didn't unmatch, and didn't delete my number. She started posting thirst traps on Instagram to get my attention, so we had a little back-and-forth in the DMs before I went to the date night with the first girl. Once that date ended, and our Uber dropped her off, I checked my DMs and responded to this girl, who, once again, is sexually frustrated and wants me to come over again.

She's mad that I was with another girl, but is also very attracted, hasn't had sex in a while, and I was only 20 minutes away this time. Once the Uber drops me off, I head to where I parked my car and start driving to pick her up from the bar she's at.

I kid you not, the entire time I'm driving, she's texting me, mostly having an internal conflict with herself about how she can't believe she's going to sleep with me when I was just with somebody else, and that this is wrong, and that she should just go home...at red lights and stop signs I have to keep telling her to just relax, and that I'd be there soon.

I pick her up from the bar, and she's still going through this series of emotions, half-excited, half-pissed. We make out a little bit in my car before she gives me the address to her place.

We go in, I meet her dog and her cat, she gets me a drink, and we toss something up on Netflix. Similar to the first girl, we are very quickly making out on the couch, getting hot and heavy, before transitioning to the bedroom. She's been at the bar, so she's got a healthy buzz. Meanwhile, mine had worn off long ago, so I was essentially sober, AND stressed out by her going back and forth about whether she was going to commit to having me over this time.

The sex is good, but I don't last long, for the above reasons. We end up cuddling, making some small talk, with her still taking jabs at me for having been with another girl the night before. I finish my drink, and she asks if we can go again very shortly after the first round. I tell her we can after I've had a little more downtime, so she instead decides that we can just go to bed then, but that I'm welcome to wake her up to go again.

I don't. She's hot, but I'm stressed out by her level of crazy, sober, and quite tired from the night before. So I take this time to get a good night's rest. She wakes up early, around 7:30 AM or so, and leaves shortly after to pick up her car that she left at the bar the night before, sending me a text apologizing for having to leave me in bed.

This is all fine by me. I sleep in a little, then get dressed and head back to my buddy's apartment. This girl loves sex and has been without it for a long time. She mentioned in bed that if she had it her way, she'd be having sex 5+ times per day. She would like to see me regularly, but she lives about an hour away unless I'm up in Philly again, so I don't see myself making that trip consistently.

She was fun, but I enjoyed the first girl's company significantly more. That's probably the only thing that's unfortunate about this.

Still had a very fun time overall, and definitely made the most of my weekend up there.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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