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....But they do now. I'm seeing countless media articles about women in their 40's and 50's "rediscovering" themselves on Tinder and Sugar Daddy dating sites.
You're absolutely right. I've heard of Gen X women (now 45-55) in the last 5-7 years going on website/swipe apps and getting more attention as menopausal women than when they were in high school or college in the pre-internet era of the 1980s. The wall is softer than we think.
 

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clapped them cheeks , i bent that beach over the bed twice and busted on them cheeks.
 

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If I may be slightly less cynical, maybe she actually had other things to do? She told you she had stuff on her agenda before the meetup time, it sounds legit to me.
i clapped twice tonight, so your story checks out big homie

sometimes beaches cancel just to eat ice cream and watch ''supernatural''
 

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Sure is. What's even crazier is that there are swathes of mommy's boys in their 20's who have fetishized older women. These menopausal hags are bathing in young c0ck.
That's dreamy for them. In the last 20 years, we've started to see surpluses of 20s-30s single men relatively to 20s-30s single women, both globally (due to China and India) and in the United States. Some of these surplus 20-29 year old men end up having sex with women in their 30s and 40s, although they will rarely commit. The typical shelf life of an interaction of a younger man with a woman 10+ years older than his own age is about 6-12 months.

Porn is also a contributing factor with this. There are a lot of attractive 30-40 something women in porn, an overrepresentation of real life. If porn star women represented the female universe, a larger percentage of 30-45 year old women would be physical fit and sexy. A lot of younger men are watching porn due to the surplus of men leading to fewer opportunities for sex. They see these fit and sexy 30 and 40 something women and think it'd be awesome to bang some of these women. When they strike out with their own age group, some will venture north to these older women. It isn't always reject on a physical level doing this. There are average looking and even above average looking men who do this. No porn and no fap is a good idea.

Women in their 30s and 40s are often difficult to date. For example, a 35 year old woman will make it incredibly difficult for a 35-40 year old man to date her as she's seeking both an attractive man and a provider figure. However, that same 35 year woman will have lower standards for younger men, since she holds zero provider expectations out of him. It is easier for a 21-25 year old man to have sex with a 35 year old woman than a 35-40 year old man.

Despite the feminist mantra of "Never Settle!", a lot of 30 and 40 something women end up settling if they want a commitment. Some of these female settlers end up unhappy and have affairs while some begrudlingly accept that they will have a boring beta male LTR in their lives.

The type of cougar out there is changing. Over the past 20 years, the cougars have mainly been late Boomers (1960-1964) and Gen X women (1965-1981). These cougars have typically been divorced women with children. As early Millennial women (1982-1989) start to become cougars in the next 5-10 years, these 1982-1989 born cougars are more likely to be never married and childless women who have spent their 20s/30s with websites, social media, and swipe apps and been hotly pursued for 15-20 years/engaged in carousel riding. The Boomer and Gen X cougars of the past had their physical primes before thirsty guys were pursuing them via the internet or smartphone.
 

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There's a surplus of men full stop, and as a result it's a force multiplier on male thirst. Men get thirstier and thirstier, women get scarcer and scarcer. This surplus of men is the result of limited wars in the modern era. We need another WW1/WW2 to send the majority of fighting men into a meat grinder. The men who survived WW2 had a field day. We need a big cull of men in 2021 to address the imbalance of available men vs unavailable women.
The cull of men has been needed for 10-20 years. COVID-19 has not been a cull of men. Most of the men dying of COVID-19 are 60+, an age range where there is not a surplus of men.

Also, modern women are all scrambling for the top -5% of men. What most men don't seem to understand is that she will not settle for less. She will wait, and wait, and wait. She'll hit 40 and still be waiting.....all because of that one night when she was 22 and giga-Chad pumped and dumped her. She thinks that's her level of man. I'd say there are currently millions of modern women who have been alpha widowed by giga-Chads. These alpha widows can now never settle for less.
Millennial women have bought the "Never Settle!" line more so than their Boomer or Gen X mothers or older sisters. Boomer women settled at 30. Boomer women were the first large generation to have divorce available to them, though the smaller Silent Generation was the first wave of divorcees when no fault divorce started. Even though Boomer women were a downgrade from women preceding them, they represent an upgrade in attitude compared to subsequent generations. Gen X women settled at 35 and were moody about it. Now, Millennial women, raised on self-esteem boosting participation trophies in the 1990s, believe that they are entitled to whatever they desire. They are less inclined to settle and often won't do it until around 40 or older. Also, Millennial women will not stick around unfulfilling relationships as long as a Boomer or Gen X'er would have, nor are they willing to wait around to make things work. They want what they want and they want it now!

Women can't go backwards. Once she's had a certain level of man then she just can't accept anything lower than that. That's why social media has ruined it for most men today. They are trying to seduce women who are getting pumped by premier league footballers, minor celebrities, super Alphas etc.
All accurate!
 
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I agree. Maybe for a one night stand if she's hot. But for a relationship? Hell no. She's 2 years off 30. It's like buying a pint of milk that is about to expire.
I still wouldn’t lol. Any woman that’s single and that old has really screwed up her life.
 

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You been hangin out with Chinese women too long homie. Your mind has turned to soya sauce.
Bro, if I wanted my comeback, I woulda got it from yo mamma! ;)
 

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she threw that ''i have something to do then i will be open '' sh!t , i didnt realize until i got flaked thats exactly wht it is.
if i tell you i gotta go do something over here then when you ask what happened ''oh man i fell alseep '' ''ahhh i forgot'' thats why i didnt say nothin
it was a set up from the start
Always be ruthless with these b's and be willing to walk away at all times. They try to get the power from you but in reality do not want it. If they get the power they will hate you for it, they are all crazy.
 

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I'm white. What does 'clapped' mean? That mean you smashed?

In college, I had to ask a black friend of mine what 'twankies' were.
that means i hit it from the back and went all the way in until my pelvis clapped against her butt cheeks.
 
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