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Without getting technical on the 'unconditional' word.. In some respects when we talk about unconditional love it may relate to something where you dont have major expectations.. You give love without wanting anything back or expecting anything or much at all. Even what you get back is...

GOLD. Something I need to read, read and read again.

Subtle. "I was out and about spending time with some people". (Say it such that you are trying to not tell her much, trying to be vague ;). That way you dont have to say "with a girl or multiple girls". It IMPLIES that without you "boasting" about it.

Agree.

Mid late 20s. I get carded all the time.. unless I dont shave or something. If I workout and lose some of the acquired BF, i could pass for High schooler. I had career issues where people wouldnt believe me. Dress like a MAN, talk like the MAN. KNOW YOU ARE THE MAN. U'll get crap.. but u...

I'd say there is no need to play extreme ends of the spectrum. Always being a challenge makes it tough for you to really connect. Being an AFC makes it boring and ..basically lose respect for you. Be Dr. TOUGH LOVE. Love her but lead and make sure she understands the respect factors...

Unconditional Love is one you get from a Mother. Atleast I have experienced that. Women - Love them but save them from mishaps and themselves

I used to think that. I still think that. I am your age.. but I have realized that nothing is better than NOW. Fix NOW.. not then and not later..

Agree big time.

You want BETTER for him.. But maybe thats your viewpoint. Maybe that is the life he chooses to live. Everyone has a purpose in life and maybe that's his purpose. Maybe some Buddhist monk is living a purer life than you and might choose to educate you to fix your ways. But, to you its alright...

Feeling the vibe.. (read the article on Jugglers site). He is SUPER COMFORTABLE IN HIS OWN SKIN. That is what gives him a Zen like quality. He is unaffected by judgement, labels etc. He IS HIMSLEF.. not trying to improve not trying to be anything and UNAFRAID of BEING HIMSELF. Someone...

Ive been reading a lot of Juggler stuff. Try it out. See their free blogs. It will change the way you THINK and LOOK at things. www.charismaarts.com

Ive known a woman do this to several guys where I was the one who got the STUFF. They were LJBFed. Be nice. Dont be bent on her. Just move on.

Have you maybe looked at figuring out if YOUR BEHAVIOR is affecting her BEHAVIOR ? Take a weekend getaway and do a fantasy role play with new lingerie.. if u still see no sparks.. its a deeper issue u need to talk it out.

Bottomline is no one can tell u whats right. You have to find your purpose in life. There are people whose love life changes to family life and their purpose becomes nothing more than seeing their children happy. PERIOD. Thats their choice. What would I want.. maybe more than that...