Recent content by StoneyRU

Hey all, New to the site but have learned a lot since my most recent breakup. Got a question for all- Ever since my situation (acting beta and losing a hot girl)- I've been doing my best to move on. Banged other girls, gone on dates, lifting hard, and focusing on work a ton. Still...

Agreed. My issue now is that I get kinda down on myself for messing up my most recent girl by showing too much early. Im at the point where I get angry at her and myself almost daily. She's really hot which is the core of my issue, but when I truely look back we weren't very compatible...

So I must not be the only one on this board to go beta for a oneitis and end up getting the sh!t end of the stick? Glad I found this forum for sure. My problem- I've slept with a lot of girls but I am very picky. So the girls I'm not interested in, especially in college, I could easily...

My question is- a girl that you have to do this with, is she LTR material? I feel like if a chick isn't 100% interested from the start it'll never work long term. Wish I would've seen this thread 4 months ago. I still got laid a bunch but I definitely took the wrong route in a very similar...

Wish i read/understood this 4 months ago. Well said and well played uncharted

Soulforge repeat after me- "Let the garbage man handle the garbage"

Any tips on how to rid this bitterness and anger? It seems like a daily routine where I think about this situation and get mad. Not only at her for playing me and not treating me right, but myself for really stooping to that beta level and allowing it to happen. I'm 24 and have banged/had...

I definitely feel ya. And yes I'm still a little bitter and pissed about it all, especially when she acted like a *****. And I wasn't staring off in the distance to ignore her I was more just conversing with everyone else and not including her. Does show that I still care gotta move past that...

Hey guys, Backstory: Met a girl this summer, acted beta, fell too hard, ended up not working and I understand my screw ups. Found out she was texting other guys and dropped her and ignored her completely when she kept trying to contact me. Here's the thing: We have a lot of mutual...

That's what I was thinking but wasnt sure if she meant next Wednesday. so I'm just gonna say sounds good and maybe hit her up next week. Idk I might let her be the one to reschedule or remind about next week. Not trying to seem needy she gets that a lot and I know I'll see her around and be able...

I have no idea so suave I just know they still remain in contact some but she tells her friends its over. I texted her about getting up for some pool/drinks last night and she texted me today- hi! I'm busy this Wed but raincheck for next week?? I'm just gonna say sounds good and let her...

Yeah I agree and what do I have to lose? Rejections better then being too scared to ask. So got one more question. We are going out Thursday with a bunch of mutual friends (they play in a rec leaugue and I usually meet them at the bar after since I couldn't play cause of work) Wait until...

Quick question-how do you handle girls fresh out of relationships that you wanna ask out? Got a girl I met through some friends who is def a HB9 and real cool. We have been around each other like 3-4 times at the bars when we are with mutual friends. There's definitely some attraction and...

Great post Harry. Question- what are some of the reasons you give when they ask why you stopped? Of course you don't wanna look like you are scared so what are some of the "excuses" you give?

Thanks for the advice. I definitely think i ended it with the upper hand and her not knowing whats up. She has to have an idea that i know but i want to keep it that way and move on. Honestly after reflecting on this all, she sucked anyways so i am glad i am getting out of this now. BTW she was...