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She doesnt do pda (with YOU). Most likely she doesn’t want to be seen intimate with you (former ex in the picture, she is pining for a high smw guy, she told family and friends she is/want to be single, etc). As long as sex is happening, not a big deal. You can force an answer by taking her out...

Don't hit it even if she may cheat with another guy. You enable her behavior and also drive the price of poosy up for everyone else. She would cheat with you, return to the bf to work it out, and definitely cheat again in the future.

a. You are probably right. b. Initiate once per week if she doesn't

The only way the IDGAF attitude works at work is when you are the top boss or an expert in some niche matter. Otherwise you will eventually get in trouble because businesses hire for attitude and less for skill (skill can be trained). In dating this attitude will gain you some points with low...

Lack of calibration generates masturbation.

I think the most important thing is to recognise high interest plus goal alignment should come first, looks second. Too many hot women chased versus investment in good looking interested women who have the same goals and principles as you. Second part is way more rewarding than the first.

It's hard to say. Psychologists say that if she looks down like she is sizing you up is a sign of interest and submission. But I wasn't there to see her, so you can misinterpret. Surest way is to mention activities outside of work you can do together.

Ask her if she is single, or what she is doing outside work. Mention a concert/event you are going to and ask her if she wants to join you. Is she is available she will say yes.

Depends on the stage you are in. For the first two-three dates you can act like said above, double or triple book. If this happens after 5-6 dates is a sign of something deeper (lost attraction, testing), so I say confront and never tolerate flakey behavior after confronting. I mean confronting...

I am from Eastern Europe and can confirm.

Since all interactions were at work, there is a lens applied over the situation. - she may have had high interest and still has some but is waiting for a signal from you (because of work) - she may had medium interest and gave up (because you didn't show, because some other guy came in the...

I can relate, your only solution is to find another job. I had an similar manager for 4 years, after 3 I was speaking with myself at home, had panic attacks. My last panic attack was en route to the new job. I am drama free (work related) since then.

My point was to avoid low interest women who give few short signals, and go for the high interest ones.

Keep it simple: all high interest women will continue to give you signals for a long time. Even the stupidest of men will catch on in these cases.

With all the women I dated I never started sex subjects (direct or indirect). After 2-3 dates, ALL the women started sexual innuendo.