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    Sometimes, it really IS IMPOSSIBLE to CLOSE

    Okay, I agree with you there, but........ Even if I said that....this girl DOES NOT know me, I am a stranger. We might of talked for 30 seconds as she went through the door and to her car, but how do you get a phone number when you only talked to a girl for 30 seconds, 1 minute, etc. It is...
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    Sometimes, it really IS IMPOSSIBLE to CLOSE

    I know we get angry at ourselves for "blown" opportunities, but sometimes due to the time constraint or context of the situation; I think it is impossible sometimes for something to come out of an encounter with a woman. I had one happen to me the other day in Dunkin Donuts and I am sure...
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    Reaction to attractive women that piss you off/disrespect you

    I know when I have felt maybe rejected by a certain girl or a girl disrespects me in a certain way; I "get even" by ignoring the girl next time I see her; generally acting like she doesn't exist. I.E. If we are talking in a group setting; or you see the that girl around; I avoid eye contact...
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    Why women don't mention their boyfriend

    This one cute chick who comes into my work place here and there I kind of get a good vibe from. When I asked her how her weekend went, she said "Well WE went hiking/camping in Upstate New York. I did not ask who WE was, but I assume it was the boyfriend. Now, I personally believe, a...
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    The Great Irony of the SMV theory

    If you're a 35 year old "average" guy, chances are you've got at least a little bit of a gut. Your bad lifestyle choices are beginning to manifest. Bingo! It amazes me how out of shape and "average" guys my age (36) and 5-8 years younger are. They are my motivation to keep working hard...
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    The Great Irony of the SMV theory

    If you are OVER 30, it is ALL ABOUT BEING IN GREAT PHYSICAL SHAPE to get women 10-15 years younger than you. Being in your 30's and having just an average body is NOT going to cut it, unless maybe you make 75K+ a year. I see so many guys my age (36) and younger who just look like crap...
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    The Great Irony of the SMV theory

    I will have do DISAGREE with Backbreaker. I had stuff happen to me in my early to mid 30's, that DID not happen in my 20's. First off, I am no strikingly handsome GQ Model. I am on the tall side, have all my hair and pretty good physique, but facial aesthetics lean more towards the average...
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    Age Difference and dating younger women/what society thinks

    I am a 36 year old male, in good physical shape, full head of hair, 6 feet tall, etc. I can pass for 30! Like alot of guys my age (atleast I assume) I am not interested in dating women my age, I am attracted to girls 18-30 tops. Women start going downhill at 30 in my opinion. I know...
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    Would you learn French or Russian?

    Hi, what language would you want to learn? 1.) For Coolness Factor 2.) For Job Opportunities (i.e, job in government such as translator/interpreter For those who speak one of these languages or other languages please feel free to comment. BTW, I minored in German and regret it...
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    Any other Dark Haired-Dark Eyed Meditteranean, Hispanic Guys experience this?

    I am Italian looking, almost black hair and very dark brown eyes with a moderate complexion. I guess opposites do attract, because I have noticed this time and time again. Women with dark features (Dark brown to Black Hair) and Dark eyes don't really seem to notice me or give me the time...
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    It's simple: Attraction is ALL IN THE EYES

    E.g. There is a girl I find very good-looking in my boot camp conditioning gym class. I have talked to her a couple if times (On my initiation) and she was nice. HOWEVER, she NEVER looks at me when I walk by her (even when I am looking at her) and seems to TRY and AVOID looking at me as I...
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    It's simple: Attraction is ALL IN THE EYES

    Yeah this chick in gym class walks by me like she has blinders on. When we pass each other (e.g. maybe for a water break) or something she looks to the side as I pass her and I think even looked up and away when I walked by her looking at her in tonight's class. Only about 10 days ago did I...
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    It's simple: Attraction is ALL IN THE EYES

    I have come to the conclusion if it this simple and most of it is NON-VERBAL ACTION; all in the EYES. If a woman finds you attractive/attracted to you/interested etc.; she WILL LOOK AT YOU. Even if a woman is shy, you will catch an looking at you (maybe from a distance) or trying to...
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    "The Ten year rule" age difference for women

    I've been doing some research online and looking at various match.com profiles seeing women's age preferences. It seems to me: Women DO like older men, but generally NOT more than 10 years older. 10 years seems to be the oldest they will go; unless you are famous or are completely...
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    Women who avoid eye contact

    I generally take this as a blatant sign of disinterest, even if the girl is shy because WE ALL like to look at stuff we like E.g, There is a girl in my gym class who I think is hot and I have talked to a couple of times (on my initiation) but....... Whenever I walk by her, whether it be on...
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