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Recent content by Serenity

  1. Serenity

    Hello everyone

    Giving a compliment is fine, but you should know the right time to apply it and that's for sure not too soon. Giving a compliment to a woman you just met and know literally nothing about screams of desperation. You have to start off casual at first. I have no idea how to pick up a woman wearing...
  2. Serenity

    YouTube rant

    Maybe it's easier for her level of language skill exactly because the women who make these videos are too dumb to use too fancy words? Watching videos about more advanced stuff might introduce too many new complex words and overwhelm her. Just guessing, would indeed be fair enough.
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    “You look like a player”, yet...

    I get the same feeling as @BackInTheGame78 that you might be passive. If this is the case and others do perceive you as a player it should take relatively little effort to get girls, all you have to do is be a bit more active.
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    Hello everyone

    That's way below average. The guys you've met who haven't lost their virginity yet tend not to talk about it so you're probably biased by this. Not sure what the laws are where you're from, but I'm pretty sure such videos are illegal in most parts of the world. First piece of advice...
  5. Serenity

    Hello everyone

    You're 16... No, you should not be sad about that. Many guys on this forum were waaaaay later than that and many more who did have sex got burnt by women for years and even decades. You found this forum at age 16, most guys here would probably consider you very lucky for that. You have a chance...
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    what do you want out of the situation?

    ...and more importantly, what they are offering you in return for it. I don't mind at all that people want something out of me, that's just fair if I get something I value out of them.
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    YouTube rant

    Have you asked your wife what it is she finds interesting about it from her point of view?
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    what do you want out of the situation?

    I like to think this is common sense, but it's surprising how many people are blind to this fact. Of course we all want something in return for what we do, be it money, recognition, affection, favors or just pleasant companionship. Those who give more than they receive do so with a false hope of...
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    AITA for covertly testing her?

    If you have to play games like this with her to get some action then it doesn't make the relationship any less dysfunctional. If you want to grow you'll have to terminate this relationship eventually. You said one of the main reason you're in this relationship is because of your kid. You should...
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    Being unpredictable

    I agree, I don't expect an answer within 5 minutes. If I know she has the opportunity to reply sooner, but for no good reason stalls and the behavior is consistent then I'll be annoyed. Not a huge disrespect, just turns me off when everything is taking so long.
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    Well it has finally Happened......

    Too logical? If you ask me it sounds romantic as hell. Maybe it doesn't work on heartless women.
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    Being unpredictable

    Simple fix for that, just move on then, unless it's what Kotaix says. If you're showing interest and want to connect, but she seems to distance herself then it's settled, she's not for you. I personally hate playing all those fvcking games if I'm looking for love. Like "being more...
  13. Serenity

    Think your woman is BPD? Unlikely...

    Unless accounted for the 5% is likely higher, these people aren't the type that usually want to get themselves diagnosed. I agree with your point though, it's probably overused for women who are just plain sh!tty, but not next level insane. My mother has BPD, I heard she said she had the...
  14. Serenity

    I would appreciate your input here

    Don't know for sure why they hate you, but I would for sure block them and anyone who believes their lies about you.
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    I'm Pissed!

    Second stage of grief, anger. About to enter the third stage, bargaining. Next up is depression, I hope you make it through when it hits you. For now focus the energy of your rage to push yourself forward in life, might as well take advantage of this unpleasant emotion as a motivating force...