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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    After more than a year that all this happen I've never felt better, just yesterday was kind of weird. I deleted her from all my social media, and seem she too. Yesterday she followed me in all like a crazy act but I didn't followed her back, I don't want to know her things. I think is better...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    So I've got to thank you guys. I have dated a lot of women(7 in like 8 months after NC if I recall) a lot of my girl friends started to look at me with different eyes, even date one of her. I've got to say that the sparkle with my ex just appeared yesterday, I wanted to be an assistant for a...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day don't remember It is actually weird and sad that people near me couldn't tell me about horrible things that she did because they didn't want to "hurt" me. So the other girl I'm actually seeing, her ex is dating my ex. She is better is all I can say. But I don't know if you guys had this tv...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Ah well, and I thought seeing her everyday at class would be tough. I can't imagine the pain at the start!!!
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thanks, I needed this. I feel much better now, actually want to see a HB7 in my way to the college and try to work with her. In this days she look way better that I remembered
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    So maybe I won't get any response but I need to write down here In a party I talk to her (It was awkward at first, I was talking to some friends and she came out to say hi. My good friends left me with her alone), and it was good, feeling right. After 10 minutes I said to her that we better find...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Even if it isnt for me, it helps. But it is difficult seeing her nearly all the day and she being her (giving hug, being flirty and all to my friends). The only thing that it helps its that she wants to have me at least as a friend, and I dont give her the chance
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    How should I act about a friend trying to going out with my ex? One made out with her and is trying to get her more and another one got date with her later. Yeah my friend sucks I ask to DJ friend to teach me and going out to another ****ing social circle
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I even forget the day So I manage to find time for the gym, hopefully I'll stay this time there and not quit. Also I found out that I am more atractive that I thought, the sister and couple of her friends liked me and a few other people than don´t know me thought the same. I gotta say than the...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I forgot the day of NC ut pretty sure its more than two months. So I see her everyday at the uni and hospital because we're classmate. Pretty weird saying hello to her but I don't care, I only do it when she is with some of our mutual friends. A few friends told me that she asked me how was I...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I finished the NC Challenge I gotta say that I was a king AFC. Now I doubt that i left tha old me behind completely but fixed a lot of things. People noticed it a few times so yeah, it felt great. About her, a lot red flags and a few of her friends too but I know she is a good person. A little...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I broke my NC after more the 80 days. After the earthquake, I received a message from her asking if I was ok. I didn't knew who she was until I send that I was fine and saw her profile picture. We talked for a minute and done. At the she told me "Take care S Aureus" and I said "you too". I felt...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 64 So actually I think that I nearly forget her. A few days ago a I remembered her and missed her, but then after reading all the red flags and stupid things she had done (I wrote them in a paper so I could read it) it passed away the feeling. Im pretty sure that I don't missed her, only the...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 56 So yesterday I nearly anged a new plate ut the place was too crowded wit a lot of friends and with my ex. Kinda beta because I wasnt so sure if i should had kissed her because my ex was like 5 foot from me but at the I was like **** this and did it. The only thing that I'm sure is that...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    From experience, is better not to respond. If you do it and then you try NC again. It will be possible that they know that you're weak, that once you tried NC and fail, if they wanted to contact you again and you will respond and be in their hands again.
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