Recent content by QuanJuan

Re; What Rollo said! Here is what Rollo Tomassi told me about this situation and which I think makes very good sense; "One other thing you need to unlearn is this stupid social dogma that says a 44 y.o. guy 'shouldn't' get after a 25 y.o. woman. I can see from your post here that this is...

The only thing I can say is that a lot … A LOT…of the verbiage has direct associations with DJing; “It's only after you've lost everything that you're free to do anything.” …, this is perfect wording for the poor AFC. He has to hit bottom and realize that he has no idea what he’s doing with...

SWEET Hey..., maybe there is hope for me. See my Boot Camp update.

Still on week one!..., update Hi Guys, I haven’t had much time to sarge my EC and “hi’s” because my Dad’s been ill, but yesterday I was able to get an hour in at lunch. I hit the strip and got a hi from an HB7…, she was actually waiting for the walk light and looked at me from across the...

12 steps Hi Jalex73, I’m glad you’ve admitted being AFC, but that is only the first step…, here are the rest =) 1. We admitted we were powerless over women - that our love lives had become unmanageable. 2. Came to believe that a Pook could restore us to sanity. 3. Made a decision to...

Week one update Wow, what a complete waste of time. I’ve gone out on 2 more one hour forays to acquire my 50 hi’s for week one boot camp. I have probably gotten two or three more which basically brings me up to 25. Really this sucks terribly and I don’t know what to do about it. Like I said...

No way!! Are you kidding??? Do you know how many pages that is...., approximately 80!!!..., and the DJ Bible which is the manual to follow is 190 pages!!!..., and WMS; Weapons of Mass Seduction is another 112+ pages!!! You need all of these and more to successfully fulfill your Bootcamp...

Re: Rollo Thanks Rollo, I always like what you write and the suggestions you make. I have internalized this crap, and unlearning it will be the task at hand. You're right, when the roles are reversed there is no stigma attached to it, and the only stigma there really is, is inside of me. I...

Update Hi guys, Sorry I haven't updated the boot camp thread for a week. I've been busy with moving and will finally be signing on my house sale today!! I've gotten a little more EC in lately and a few more Hi's but not near close to the 50 I need so I will post to the BC thread by next...

Re: When to call Hey Sov, I agree 5 to 7 days to call is too long, especially when you're dealing with an American babe. Some of them have been told to next guys if they don't call back within 4 days (or something like that in The Rules for women). I think a minimum of three days is in order...

Re; Mischka Thanks Mischka, I'm really all messed up right now. I can only hope that listening to you guys and doing the BC steps you have placed in front of me will correct this programming. You're right..., classic AFC; I need to be with a woman to be happy, I need to find my soulmate to...

Re: IronFar Thanks man..., that makes me feel better. I guess I'll read the post "What cities are best...," I have a long way to go before I start thinking about relocating, but I'm not against it at this point.

I'm not having fun yet! This is some tuff stuff. I'll just keep reading all the material and working the BC, but I really feel overwhelmed right now. I did post an update to the BC thread so take a moment to read it and let me know if you can see any immediate problems. Is it Ok to just...

Week 1 update Thanks Mantra, I'm trying but I must be a "special" e.g. retarded DJ because this stuff is not coming easy for me. Here's my update, and once again sorry it's so long; So tonight I went on my 2nd one hour EC outing. I was feeling burnt out after work so I went home and grabbed...

Thanks Guys Thanks for the input guys..., and Rollo, those are words of wisdom I will take to heart. I obviously need to undo what I have become. The great thing that I got from your words was that I have the qualities that make a single man a success..., I simply need to break the programming...