Recent content by ogre

You want to show women the strong side of you. The entrepreneur who won't quit. The unrecognized intellectual. The fun, forward-looking guy whose got guts and a great sense of humor. If they see these things in you, then nothing else will matter. I suppose if I frame it right, my story would...

mentioning your disability early will get you some, but things won't get far after that. Best to leave it out and mention it later if you want to develop something more meaningful with someone. one thing I noticed about aformetioned Hot Chick back in October was that she didn't give a rats...

response to thedeparted if you are telling girls you have a disability you will get SYMPATHY -- you are definitely not gonna get PVSSY. hear me? the alternative is to not mention it and get neither. if you were high value you would not settle for "again sometime". which is why I...

responding to jophil28 Tell me, do you mention ANY of this to them on the first date ? some of it. I mention the asperger's because it gives me an excuse for my quirky behavior. girls seem to be sympathetic. I also tell the fire story at some point. I never, ever mention the social...

Women don't want a guy that asks them what they want to do, yes I noticed that in a date last year. I gave a girl to many choices and she accused me of beig "indecisive" You lead. They want a man with a plan. Of course, listen to what she says she likes, as that will give you some ideas...

I have far more success hooking up on first dates, and getting second dates, when the first date just consists of meeting up for drinks. really? so you agree to just meet for drinks but then you end up hooking up? Like you, I used to do dinner dates as first dates, and I experienced far...

I am not so much concerned about your net worth as I am about your APPEARANCE of the ABILITY to produce. If you want cream of the crop, hot women, you will have to look the part. This means getting rid of your old vans and moving into a decent apartment if you cannot afford to buy a house. You...

you must be an attractive man. I've been told that I am...even by aformentioned hot chick. so then why is this so difficult? You also seem to have no problem getting the first date or getting in some time with women. So, it's what happens surrounding that is where you're losing them...

What is your annual income, net worth, height, weight and body fat %? 5'7" 170 lbs, I dont know what percent of body fat, I have a bit of a pot-belly which I've had even as a child. I was about 150 lbs for most of my adult life, but 3 yrs ago I took on another 20 lbs, at least 1/2 of that is...

How many women have you dated (1 date or better) before your last (non) exclusive relationship? I have only hd 2 LTR's. the first one, I was 26. I knew nothing about game. I was not dating. I asked girls out and they all said no. this one said yes. it lasted for 3 months. my 2nd LTR was 10...

How many women have you dated (1 date or better) before your last (non) exclusive relationship? I have only hd 2 LTR's. the first one, I was 26. I knew nothing about game. I was not dating. I asked girls out and they all said no. this one said yes. it lasted for 3 months. my 2nd LTR was 10...

In the first situation I believe her friend c0ckblocked you. no doubt. you probably would have been better off with a number close by the time I asked it was too late. The second woman doesn't sound interested at all. that's....... what I was afraid of. When a woman offers to...

dude, its up to you to LEAD the physical attraction. no, no! :nono: I went on some dates in the past and totally blew it because I was too touchy-feely. got to let the woman initiate. got to. touching w/out permission is creepy. I was very carful to read her body language for positive...

Hi all I used to be a regular on this forum and I have been away for awhile. basically I gave up because everything I tried, failed. I am 44 and still learning how to date. I've got game. game is not the problem. I approach women all the time and I'm in a good social environment with...

haha joekerr31 thanks. I find that the traditional "coffee" date (or pizza or diner) does not work out for me. it's like a f*cking job interview. whatever I do, it has to be something unique and different. But maybe my game is too dependant on my environment. if a girl is into me, it...