Recent content by nugama

Short story - Girlfriend (4 months), one of her friends, and I went out to the bar for Karaoke. The girls decided it was time to go about thirty minutes before last call. On the way out, they stopped and started to flirt with a guy. I kept going stopped outside for a smoke, then sat in my car...

I might have to steal that. 32 myself and it's been a while since I have dated anyone over 26. The older *****es are bitter because they realize under it all they are not sweet. The younger girls still think they are, and that's a bit more attractive. Once they realize that they are not as...

Work shoes. Pair of New Balance. Sandals. Dress shoes. I wear the sandals when ever I can. IMO, clothes mean about D**k. Being clean is good, in shape is also good, but well dressed ~. My sandals, pair of jeans covered in paint, and an old t-shirt seems to work perfectly fine. Attitude is and...

Putting this up because I would be interested in feedback and thoughts of others. So we seem to live in a culture where women are taught to be trained and controlled - but also to be controlling and rewarded. From my experience roughly 10% of males have the ability to truly control women -...

Knew a girl who use to only "just date". Mainly because she had a guy who kept her as FB. She would flout it as her being a strong woman. Now she has been with a guy for 3~ years, he tries to treat her well - but she follows his demands even the smallest. You can tell she is sorry for being some...

Not so much. That's why I don't advocate FB friends. You just ruin the girl mentally and now no guy wants her. If your willing to do that, take responsibility instead of trying to convince yourself otherwise. You certainly can be honest about it and keep her in GF mode the entire time. She will...

Keep the mystery. Enough solid attention every day to make her feel wanted, but be absent emotionally the rest of the time. Go out with the guys or sit in a bar. If you sit in a bar, leave out key elements of your night to keep mystery - she will pick up on that you are never 100% truthful and...

Do you care for her? That's the real question. If you care for her at all, let her go. She will be miserable with you, but she wont ever leave. So, if you have no issue subjugating another being for your own gain - then keep her. She has a chance of finding a guy that wont use her and will love...